So just had the worst night ever clubbing. Me and my best mate went out with 3 girls, at the start of the night I made it clear to him that I wanted one of them and the other 2 were for him.

They were being boring as fuck so I said, in front of them, they are boring lets go pick up other chicks. Met various other girls. My best mate got on well with other girls whilst I struggled.

My friend was staying at my house that night and I wanted to go home early as I'm moving the next day but he was having the best night he's ever had. We had several fights over going home and were even stopped by police who asked what was happening.

The argument was, he started to pick up the girl I told him was mine for the night, I was pissed but a girl isn't worth a best friendship so I ignored it. Eventually I wanted to go home, but he had none of it. We had a big argument and almost a fist fight. Being the good friend I am I told him I'd stay for another hour to let him have fun. We agreed. Hour gone, no he didn't want to go and another huge fight. This time it involved police, tramps and fists. Don't ask.

Basically, if I was staying at a friends house no matter what time it was when he wanted to leave I would. But no. Not to mention he stole my girl who I've been texting for weeks.

I gave my friend options, I gave him money for a taxi so he can come to my house later and I'll go home now. Nope not good enough. I said he can go have another hour and I'll sleep on the beach and he can wake me up when he wants to go home. Nope I'm still too selfish.

Oh did I mention he lost all of his money and I bought his drinks all night? I'm still a selfish friend apparently. THIS IS MY BEST FRIEND.

Worse enough, I failed with all 3 girls who are pretty easy to pickup. Even the girl who I've been having sexual conversations with for ages wasn't interested when I tried to kiss her.

Fuck the girls man they aren't worth the relationship of my best friend. Oh well. He called me selfished, I got punched by a tramp, my friend got punched by 2 people when I wasn't looking. He went to say buy to the girls whilst I sat in the taxi and all for what. TBH I think I'm above the girls we were with, I'd fuck them all but nothing more than a ONS so wasn't interested in saying bye. He went to say bye and apparently got attacked on the way. I wanted to go home at 5am and not 6am. Because he had a good night with the girls and I didn't.

Last summer I did ok with women, joined PUA to improve it. I think PUA has made me worse at picking up women and turned my best friend against me. Even though, IMO, he is at fault.

More of a rant than anything. But not sure what to make of PUA anymore - feel like crying I had such a huge argument with my best mate.

Fuck knows whats happening now. Am I right or wrong?

Feel like dying SPAM. I'm very drunk right now but I had to tell you all. Help me guys, I'm in a desperate situation.

Do I give up PUA? I feel PUA has made me become too sexual with girls and too forward with them. I feel it's made me more desperate than I was to start with.

Fuck knows.

I leave tommorow, new house, new town, new friends and possibly a new personality for me on it's way. Might just forget about PUA completely, get on with life and make guy friends and just wait for a girl to pop into my life. Fuck all this approaching stuff.

What do we think guys? I'm fucked drunk and my best friend made me feel like shit, the girls hate me. This was meant to be a goodbye party.

- "Mr Selfish Friend"

If you act like a dick to others then expect to receive the same in return. You have alot of internal issues you need to sort out. Before you can make any progress picking up women start by improving your social skills. Talk to girls that are ugly and be genuinely friendly and interested in what they have to say. Get into meditation. Learn to be happy when you have noone. Finding a girl is only temporary happiness, realise this and you have already begun to grow into a better person.

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Yeah, you probably didn't do yourself any favours by arguing with your friend. That's a massive DLV, so generally try to avoid it. If your friend/wing does decide to try to pick up the girl you're going for, then I'd say ignore it, leave him to it and go and open another set. The girl will probably realise that your friend is blatantly disregarding you and going for your girl, and blow him off anyway.

When you get into a fist fight with a tramp its time to call it a night and go home regardless of what people think.