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Wings: 4 AFCs
Venue: Karma (London, Ealing)
Approaches: 3
Closes: 0
Every so often a night comes by where you do really badly, the kind of night that makes you question all your hard work, and all your pass success.
This night was an odd one I've been broke for a little whiled but i managed to scrape some change together, getting into the club was no trouble one of the AFCs i was with works at the club as a bouncer it happened to be his day off, the club was pretty vacent when we got inside trying to run game with 4 AFC's akwardly shuffeling behind me was depressing to say the least.
The guy who invited me out initially, Dan, is the dictionary definition of an AFC, first and foremost there's no shame in that, most people in the community started life as AFCs, Dan however is one of those more intense cases, he spends allot of money on phone calls to sex chat lines and seems to be hung up on his last sexual encounter which was over 2 years ago. I've been trying to introduce him to game for a few weeks now, thought it wasn't said tonight was almost like a demo a "seeing is believing type thing", unfortunately it did NOT go well.
My first approach happened about half way through the night outside the club in the smoking area, I was approached by a dark skin Caribbean girl (HB6) who checked out my bracelet after having a conversation that was going no where for about 5 minutes me and Phil retreated back into the club, my second approach really was outside the club again in the smoking area (noticing a trend yet) doesn't bare mentioning, for some strange reason the loud music coupled with the EXTREAMLY lowered social proof of having 4 AFCs constantly surrounding me expecting me to pull a 9 HB10s out of nowhere, had my Approach Anxiety working in overdrive.
The only breakthrough moment of the night came after Dan told me everyone was thinking of leaving due to lack of action, I kinda cut loose and jumped on the dance floor and started dancing, I was actually enjoying my self when a blond with short hair approached (HB8) we started dancing together doing allot of physical push/pull and such things started falling in place a little, the females in the vacinty began to dance in closer proximity to us for about 3-4 songs we danced together locking eyes deeply it was about another 2 songs later i realised a circle had formed and everyone had been watching us for a while, this continued for a little while but eventually the crowds lost interest, after all was said and done she was pulled away by a friend toward the end of the night round about 1 song away from closing time, I didn't manage to close but that didn't mater the the AFC s I was with, to them I was a hero.
-Climb
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