I don't write many of these anymore but I thought I'd write about my experience last night so I can learn from it.

Got done talking to my buddy Matt at Chumley's. Headed down south. Saw a black girl, HB7, walkin in front of me. I picked up my pace. Opened while along side of her. "Hi, whats your name". She says, "LatiSHA"... spun her around immediately after she shook my hand and put her on my arm. She was really comfortable with it and kinda snuggled up against me while on my arm. She asked me my name and I said I'm shawn. I told her that I like that she's a friendly girl.

Told her she can be my bodyguard all the way up to gateway cuz that's where I'm headed and played some C&F natural shit into my interaction with her. Called her a pimp and asked her not to sell me off to random girls. She has on a turquoise shirt and short jean shorts. So I build a connection with her saying that thats my fav color and that its awesome that shes wearing that color. I think I also qualified her at this point on if she's a boring chick who sits on her ass all day on facebook or if she likes partying and if she is adventurous. She says her fav color is blue too. While walking with her, told her that she seemed like an interesting girl and I had to introduce myself, telling her that I don't approach just anyone and that she is special. We just shoot the shit until we get to gateway and I learn that she was hanging out with some friends at Chumleys.

Asked her where she's headed and her plans. She says she parked her car near krogers and she's going to drive home. Skully's is near krogers so this works out well. Im thinking i can take her to the club, amp her BT, Makeout with her and maybe finger her to get her sexual BT up to the threshold needed for quick lays.

I tell her that she seems like a pretty chill girl and that I'm glad to learn she isn't a total weirdo. I tell her that with some girls when I talk to them they seem cool at first but after a while they turn out to be weird. Talked about some girl grabbing my ass at a club and running away. A lot of chicks hit on me while she was on my arm. VERBAlly yelling at me in some cases. Interesting shit. Anyways, I tell her that she should have a drink with me at Mad Mex. She's earned it.

We get to gateway and i simply lead her into mad mex and we're sitting on the stools. I show her the L.A. Handshake over here. L.A. Girl cold read and tell her why its a secret handshake. She is giggling etc. Then some silence and sexual tension and she breaks it by asking me questions about myself. I talk about myself and then five questions game. I wanted her to buy me a drink b4 i bought her anything. So, she loses on the fourth question. I say ill get the second round and she can get the first. She said she didn't bring any money. I change the subject quickly about how I am more of a danceclub person than a bar person. So i suggest we go to skullys. She agrees and gets up and starts walkin out. I do the same. When outside I once again put her on my arm.

I open a few sets while walking to skullys this time. I qualified her a lil bit on the way there with so what do you wantt to do with your life? She says she wants to be a fashion designer and a model and that shes into that shit. I discuss my passion for music etc. Talkin about what I wanna do with my life. sHE TALKED about what kinda music she likes and said she likes all kind. I said I started out when I was 13 makin rap music but Ive gotten more into it and now Im into house and shit.

While we're walkin to skullys she asks me "what if i have to pay to get in" then says she'll leave for her car if that happens. I tell her its ladies 80s and itll be free for her. Anyways, we get there and What is love? by haddaway is playing. She recognizes the song and gets all excited. She goes in and the bouncer makes me pay to go in $5. Whatever. He was a retarded fck and gave me back change in 1 dollar bills, disbursing a dollar every 5 seconds.

I take her in and immediately I recognize a friend of mine from Cantina, Daniel. he is there with a chick of his own, some white girl. Guess he isnt pimp enough to get some milk choco booty. Loser. Anyways I greet him and intro him to my girl. I have to piss so i tell her to wait outside for me. I piss. come out. theyre' all still conversing. I get her by the hand and lead her onto the dancefloor but then realize i should prolly get a drink so I dont make any mistakes escalating. I'm really calibrated with physical escalation when iM a bit tipsy. I take her upstairs. Get myself a budweiser and her a vodka, cuz thats what she said she likes. Its 7 bucks total ... whatever i spent 3.50 ... no big deal.

Meanwhile while the bartender is getting the drinks, i feel like this bitch thinks she owns me cuz she got a free drink from me. so, im getting IOIs from this girl sitting next to me at the bar. She opens me saying that I look like a player and that she can tell that I'm a badboy blah blah blah. She says it in a seductive tone. This bitch is obv drunk and needs pounded. but shes not as hot as my target and she is white. Aint no chance in hell that Im trying to ditch my Hersheys chocolate bar for some White crunch. But instead of blowin this bitch off, I gently put my hand around the back of her head and go for an instant make out. She doesnt oblige but our lips touched etc. I think she was too drunk to even function.

Latisha sees everything. I think she got the message that I can have other hoes. Jealousy plotline.... Check.... Once we have our drinks, i say bye to the drunken messy white bitch and take Latisha downstairs to the d-floor. Start escalating slowly. She isnt expecting anything too rough yet. I grind on her initially. Then slowly escalate to her gridning her ass on me. grabbin her hips. strokin her arms and caressin the sides of her body. Then amp up to face to face grinding. I can tell she isnt ready to make out yet because she doesnt look me str8 in the face as we grind like this.

This is where I start to amp up physically to get her turned on. I slowly go down to her ass and grab it hard. But i immediately take my hand off. Smile to her seductively. Tell her to stop turning me on and that this is so bad, we should stop. But I keep it going... a few seconds later i go down to her neck cuz its exposed. kinda suck on her neck gently. she's a little stunned by this and kinda backs away. I countered this by lowering the steps in the d-floor escalation ladder and I started grinding my ass on her again. Then after a while went back to dancing face to face.

I want to make out with her but i dont think shell do it on the d floor ... i isolate her off and take her to a table. she sits down and i jokingly sit my ass on her lap. we both laugh . then i sit next to her. I ask her if shes having fun. blah blah blah. Talk more about my desire to produce music and whatever dj shit in L.A. Tell her that I wanna move to LA after graduating. She says she goes to school at columbus college of arts. I say thats fuckin awesome... i love girls who r artistic and tell her that we get along because we're both into some artistic type shit.

I use my "Let's find out if we're psychic together" routine to k-close her. It's the same as the routine Ratisse uses for text game where he asks a girl to guess a number between 1 and 5. U say some other number than whatever she says and tell her its too bad she didnt get it right cuz she wouldve gotten a prize if she had gotten it. I put a personal twist on it... telling her that she doesn't have to worry and that there is a consolation prize. She asked what the consolation prize is... and *Boom* Im makin out with her. (While running the routine i am extremely close to her. Coming in for the kiss should seem natural and u shouldnt dive in from 2 feet away. )

She kinda kissed for 30 secs, then backed away. I use Ratisse's "Half-Assed Kiss Qualification" line and tell her lets try that again. Makeout some more. and this time i go full force and use a lot of tongue. We get real into it.

I then take her back intot he dancefloor. I'm looking for couples kino. Now, im noticing that shes dtf cuz whenever i squeeze her hand she squeezes back and she accepts the interlocking finger hand hold (which from my experience is a really good handhold technique to determine if it is on between u and the girl). Making out on the dancfloor and im grabbin her ass and feelin her up. Ask her if shes enjoyingh herself. Then ask if she wants a drink. I say i want one and take her upstairs. Here i get a shot.

She tells me that her friend hit her up and that she has to pick her up in her car. I str8 up tell her that I like her and that I wanna take her out sometime... Ask her what days is she free. She says Mon thru Thurs. I say cool and tell her we should hang out on Tuesday at 8 PM. I telll her ill text her with details about what we're gonna do. When I give her my number i add myself in her phone as "Shawn Great Ass and amazing kisser". She laughs. Also, I knew that exchanging numbers means she has a chance of flaking. So I framed it as she would be lame if she flakes: "Oh and by the way... you're not one of those girls who's really cool when ur hanging out with her but really flaky are you? iN other words, ur not gonna flake on me right?" She says no. Then i let her go and mack on some other hoes. i TEXT HER SOON after mentioning that we shuld play pool for our date. (I live next to a bar with pool tables and can easily pull her back to my place to close her on Tuesday).