| hey sorry if i put this is the wrong spot but I'm a total newb here so bare with me.
ok so I've been developing my game with a lot of great advice from this message board, but I had a specific incident so I wanted to address and maybe get some helpful advice.
so the other week I went to this club and this HB 10 was eye-fucking me all night, following me outside when I would smoke a cigarette (she pretended to be texting), etc. . this girl, no doubt, was the hottest in the club but really I was just out to have fun and dance so i didn't really pay her much attention.
side note: at this club, being a white male is a minority which is my case. so for whatever reason I kind of feel weird really gaming girls hard here, not so much b/c of myself, but I always kinda think what the other guys are thinking when I'm stealing their chicks. (haha i know this is probably the worst mindset ever and I am getting over it)
back to the story: so I'm leaving the club and this girl is drunk, calling me over when other guys are trying to game her, telling me I'm the sexiest guy she's ever seen. so i talk with her and number close, wanted to kiss close but again, felt weird as other guys were watching me closely, trying desperately to talk to her so i just let it be.
she blows me up the next day via text asking for my pics and stuff. I'm pretty busy with life so i don't have time to take super good pics like a girl, the pics I have are kinda just whats around. and i figure, well, if she was so into me IN PERSON it doesn't really matter what pics I send. haha so wrong.
i send some pics and i can tell she totally loses interest. i mean that b/c she was texting me tons before the pics, and now that she has them i don't really get anything from her. but its cool. i figured out she was like 10 years older than me with 4 kids. she's also engaged, ( which she told me when I number closed) and says she never gives her number out. i dunno if thats true or not, but it would make sense seeing as she is engaged. anyway, so the texting goes dull. i try some things to re-engage but it seems like she's over it. so I'm onto the next.
two nights ago I'm at the same club and the girl is there again. she approaches me on the dance floor and starts kissing me. now, i think this is where I really fucked up, but keep in mind the PUA mindset is fairly new to me. after she kisses me, I ask her whats up and why she hasn't responded to my texts. i really wish i just grabbed her and kissed her more passionately to be honest. i mean i pretty much had the green light. but i think when i mentioned our previous history it turned her off.
anyway i game up some other girls all night and don't see her again. couple days later I send her text saying "its been 2 weekends in a row you've approached me, i don't need a stalker". just something playful. anyway, she texts me back "was just saying hi. take care." i haven't responded. kinda feels like a shit test or something. but seems like some progress from not getting any response?
thoughts and opinions would help. i know i probably shouldn't even be fucking with ths girl since she's engaged and besides f closing i would have no other interest. i kinda just wanna hear where i went wrong, and what I should try to fix for my future game. chances are i will probably see this girl at the club again and I'm guessing she will probably approach me. also, keep in mind that this woman is about 35 with a busy life so not sure the negging is going to work.
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