A bunch of my buddies are DJs. It seems like everyone's a DJ today. I should probably become a DJ.
So he was playing at this place called Velvet in Montreal and a bunch of people I knew were heading out. It's in the old port, a beautiful place. If you're ever in Montreal, you should check it out.
I get there and it's DEAD. Like seriously it's just me, my 3 friends and the staff. Hahaha this always happens to me because I go EARLY. This is for two reasons 1) to get the vibe going, I want to be in state and 2) because I hate waiting in line, I'd rather wait inside a dead club then wait outside a packed club.
So people start arriving, my DJ friend arrives. Me and my buddies are getting a pretty good vibe going.
Then my friend An arrives, who I had a falling out with because shes' friends with my ex f buddy who things ended really badly with. Anyways, she's with this girl who's pretty cute and the DJ friend's twin brother.
I vibe with them a bit and when I shake hands to say hello with An's friend Sa there's hardcore eye contact. Then I turn my back and talk with my 3 guy friends for a bit/dance. I turn back vibe a bit more .. this goes on for a while until An stands up and we start talking a bit, she's actually dating the DJ.
I say that the guy they're with (Al) is macking Sa pretty hard. An says no, Sa has a boyfriend.
So I walk around meet some more of my friends, I cold approached a 2 set that was super hot, but they weren't into it (oh well, I use rejections/blowouts to pump my own state), and then I go back to talk to Sa. Now, I was kind of ignoring her because apparently she had a boyfriend, so I don't want to mess with that. BUT she was extremely receptive. We start talking, then she invites me out to drink at her car with her and her friends.
We all go and drink we're all talking. Sa is vibing me hard, I can feel it.
We go back inside and me and Sa start talking alone, she tells me how she just got out of a three year relationship. Alright, I knew fucking An was lying, probably because she's friends with my ex and doesn't want something to happen.
Anyways, we vibe and I say I want more tequila so we go back to her car just me and her. She invites me to sit in the car. But, she sits in the front, so I get in the back. At this point I still wasn't totally man to women with her because at the start I thought that she had a boyfriend so I was kind of friend to friend with her.
She starts talking about my ex and blah blah blah. The whole time I'm a)trying not to bash her b)trying to be unaffected by whatever she says about my ex and c) trying to be unjudgmental about it. At one point she offers to go have a threesome with her right now, which I think she was serious. But I didn't want to see my ex so I said forget it.
The whole time I'm sitting in the back and she's sitting in the front so I'm just thinking ... how the eff can I make a move on her if she's there ... I need to get her back here ... how can I do this? Then, I'm just like fuck it.
'You're so far, come sit back here'
It worked. Probably beacuse of the way I said it. She comes and sits in the back with me. Now, I know it's on. But, she leans away in the back on the opposite end. We talk a bit more, then I go to kiss her, she says no. I know she's not ready. I was pretty sure she wasn't going to kiss me either. But, I did it in order to cement the fact that this interaction is MAN TO WOMAN, not friend to friend. She knows what this is about, she knows I want her. She knows if she hangs out with me what is going to eventually happen. Therefore, if she's even around me now it is an IOI beacuse she's saying ... I know you want me, and I'm still here I just need more time.
The key is when I go in for the kiss and she says no I am UNREACTIVE, I know it's only temporary. I know it only means 'not right now', for whatever reason. It's HER issue not MINE. I'm 100% confident in the fact that eventually, we will have sex.
So I say we should rejoin our friends since I know nothing more is going to happen there, and I want to keep leading her and I want to keep the fun vibe going.
Back in the club we're together ALOT of the time, we're constantly hugging, kissing eachother on the cheek. I ask her friend of she approves of our union, she says something but I don't really care. I'm just CEMENTING THE FACT IT'S MAN TO WOMAN and she is accepting this, and therefore accepting the fact we're going to have sex.
I try to kiss her a few more times to no avail, but I'm still unreactive. Making the move ITSELF is a turn on for her. When a hot guy makes a move on a girl, even if she says no (which is probably just her social programming) it's a turn on for her.
How do I know she sees me as a hot guy ...? Well a) because that's a belief I have but also b) SHE'S STILL STANDING THERE LETTING ME HIT ON HER and touching me in every other way and accepting all my stupid lines like 'you're so hot' wtv.
Anyways, the night rolls down and I try to bounce her to McDs but she doesn't want to so I walk off. Then I see her with her friend.
This is a shit test. She wants to see how I will react. AM I THE PARTY? OR IS SHE THE PARTY? AM I AN INTERNAL SOURCE OF MY OWN FUN?
I dance and have a good tiem regardless of if she's with me. I hit on some more girls. I AM THE FUN, she is NOT the source of my fun. Therefore, I become the source of her fun. I'M THE STAR OF THE MOVIE.
I actually believe this. I actually left and forgot about her and on the way home I was like ... oh shit ... i didn't get her number or anything. I do this all the time, because i'm so fun and in my own reality i don't even care about any 1 girl.
But, luckily I did add her on FB (beause she's friends with my friend) and got her number there. We've been texting and she's supposed to come out tonight.
I told her if she doesn't come I'm going to eat a puppy hahaha
Let's see what happens
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