C, solid HB6 from OkCupid. Dinner at my place.
Seems like a guaranteed lay, but I screwed up in like 40 minutes.
I know why I did, and by that I mean:
1) I know exactly what action caused me to screw up
2) I know the mindset in which I entered this date, which was the inner cause of the screw up

As for 1) after eating we started playing this stupid game where I would try and trap her to the wall and she would try and push me back. problem is I was just playing, she took it seriously (not seriously enough to consider herself attacked, but still seriously enough to put actual strength into it whereas I was just being playful). I did not get the hint soon enough. When I did and stopped, she just said she was going to leave because she had not enjoyed that.
2) I entered this date with a totally fucked up mindset. I wanted to see how badly I could screw up and still get laid. I was not really into the girl. I had ignored her for two weeks and only decided to get her home for the sake of it. Plus, I was just out of giving the talk to J when she came home. (more on this in another thread)

Lessons learned:
Never make a girl feel trapped, even if it is just a game.
Do not go on a date with the wrong mindset.
Be more receptive to signals. I might have realized earlier that she was getting serious and not just playing along.

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)

You pinned a girl against the wall?

yes. of course not to "attack" her. Some level of fake playful physical confrontation had already gotten me a k-close. she did not see it that way. I do not blame it on her. my mindset was totally fucked up (let me screw up and see if I still screw + all the emotional bullshit over the phone). my fault. lesson learned. next (or maybe not if I go exclusive tonight).

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nice guys don't get laid
"It's disrespectful not to bang them when they sleepover." (Hellhound)