Coming home Sunday night I closed a girl on the bus. Then we hung out for an hour after. We really liked each other. It was very solid. We wer e definitely into each other.

Now the texting begins. What do you guys think??? What should I do?

Monday
3:53 am Me: Wow Amy. It was nice meeting you

4:13 am Her: It was really nice meeting you too

5:58pm Me: Hey, how's it goin? Told you i'd text you today. However, I have plans tonight. Do you wanna go on a fun adventure this week?

6:01pm Her: Hey, goin pretty well. Just got a job offer

6:02pm Her: An adventure sounds lovely

6:04pm Me: That's sweet!!! Does that mean I can quit my job and you can take care of me? Ill have fun all the time for both of us. (Jokin). Im thinkin Wednesday or Thursday I should be free, if not both.\

6:05pm Her: Lookin for a sugar momma huh? Well Wednesday doesnt work bc I have my first shift from 9-12. Unless you'd like a post-midnight venture.

6:08pm Me: Post midnight??? I'm interested. I'm a nighthawk anyway. I have a few minutes right now, you should call me

6:57pm Me: I'm headed out. I'll call you tomorrow round 7 and we can talk adventure talk.

Tuesday

12:27am Her: Oh my goodness my phone has been on silent bc of my interview! Im so sorry

12:30am Me: It's all good. Im almost home. I may be free tomorrow.

12:30am Me: Night

2:29pm Me: Hey Amy, how's it goin? Up for some adventure tonight?

2:29pm Her: Can't do tonight. Promised my parents I'd help them move

3:05pm Me: Alrighty then. I'm showing my buddies daughter magic right now. Hilarious. When are you free next?

4:24pm Her: Sounds like fun. As to when I am free, ill need to get back to you on that.



So, that is the text conversation. I showed it to a girl friend of mine and she said the girl has lost interest and not to text her again which I wasnt going to anyway.
I know my text game lacks and im working on it.

Any constructive criticism, advice, and pointers would be greatly appreciated.

Any suggestions on what to do next would be greatly appreciated.

I am not gonna text her though until she texts me I think.

Thank you
Derail

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You open the conversation in a very pedestrian way. Nice to meet you etc. I think its better to (if you feel the need to open it with a text) to make it humorous.. I have recently been having fun, by starting it with "Knock Knock." (That implies she knows your number already ps.) Then you did awesome and gave her an option of when to hang out, but then lowered your value by insinuating that you would spend both nights with her. I think asking if you wanted a post-midnight adventure was a shit-test and you should have said something like no, I'm up early the next day or w.e and that you would prefer something else. I noticed her vibe changed after that.

Also, once she decided against seeing you the following day to help her folks move you asked "when are you free next." Which is when it was officially dead.

The main problem is that there was no baiting and it was very much you chasing her and looking for when she was free. You had the right idea initially, but it seemed to as if you got desperate/needy. If I was her I wouldn't have thought you had plans with other people or other girls etc. You didn't offer a challenge.

Cheers

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