Hey guys,

SO I met this girl (HB7) 5 days ago during film festival that took course over the whole week. I approached, we ended up talking for about 15 min, she said we should hang out, I took her number.

Just as the festival was ending for the day, most people were heading to the after party. I ran into her and said she should tag along. She said she couldn't because she had work in the morning, but wanted to hang out the next night. When she left, she texted me what time she would be back tomorrow. I told her she was a party pooper for not coming out, and that I think she is a cute girl. She responded, calling me a slow poke for not saying that earlier.

The next night came around - the last night of the film festival, and we spent a lot of it together. We met each other at the club/lounge where the after party was taking place. It was very easy for me to work in an environment like this. I knew a vast amount of people to talk with and introduce her to, and had a few girls that I knew well enough to have my arm around here there. Most of my interactions with her were playful teasing. Every now and then I would take her by the hand to get a drink, or have my arm over her shoulder. It worked out well enough that we moved to a smaller bar a few blocks away with a smaller group of people and was able to K-close.

We scheduled to hang out that Friday night. When Friday came around, she said we should hang out Sunday. So here we are, Sunday.

So this is my problem:

I am constantly told by my friends that I am bound to fall into a relationship with a girl every time. Over the course of 8 years, I've been in 3 long term relationships. Every time I get out of one, I always say it's never going to happen again. I want to play around for a while, but I always end up tripping back into a gf/bf relationship. I have yet to have a fling.

So today went like this:

We met up downtown about 7pm. I did not give her a hello kiss - instead, just a hug. I took her to one of my favorite places to eat (burger joint). We ate for about 45 min, I payed the bill discretely, then we were off. I bought some beer, then we chilled in a park for quite some time - maybe 2 hours. Over the course of two hours, we talked about EVERYTHING. Her family, my family, worst accidents, aspirations, past relationships, plans for summe.. WAIT. back up a sec, PAST RELATIONSHIPS? She has NONE. She's never had a boyfriend. This gives me cause for concern. She told me that she almost had a few work out, but then found that the dude was either engaged, or was just interested sexually. While at this location, we kissed a few times - but no tongue. We left the park and walked around for about an hour, most of the time having our arms around each other (half of the time, only my arm would be around her. I think she was a tad bit nervous - although she is comes off as a confident girl, looks you in the eyes when talking). We parted at the train station - I kissed her goodbye. She kissed back.


- I am interested sexually, but she's not experienced. Am I in a bad situation for a guy like me (trying to avoid serious relationships)?

- Should I pay for everything like I've been doing?

- Am I moving too slow?

Do you think you can hit it and quit it?

Or feel to guilty doing so?

You are rapidly moving out of FWB or 1 nighter with how you are acting.

With it being her first relationship, even if you are a relationship guy I wouldn't reccomend it sure she will hang off your every word but she maybe be immature relationship wise and you will find youself in drama central in no time.