| Ok so I just broke up with my girlfriend this week, and tonight was my first night back out. I got to the venue around 11 and started off slow. I made a few small, nonverbal approaches for the first hour but mostly just had fun with my friends (all AFCs). At midnight I decided that I needed to start approaching so I made a few more small approaches. I ended up at the bar and made a few compliment openers to get the gears in motion but out of about 4, none hooked but all were friendly. I then saw a guy with really cool hair in a style that I'm looking to have so I went over and started talking to him about his hair, then a girl walked between us to get a drink. I immediately opened asking her what she would think if my hair was like the other guys. HOOK. We end up talking for a little more than an hour by the bar, she was giving me some IOI’s, touching me and whatnot, but she had this look in her eye like she really wanted me. I took her to the dance floor and we danced for a little where I got the makeout. It should be noted that although she seemed like she wanted it, the first time I went in, she turned her cheek, whatever we kept dancing and about a minute later I tried again, this time she went for it. We move off the dance floor into the back room, where we talk a little more and I ask her how she got here. Honestly I couldn’t have asked for any better logistics, she took a cab to the venue, by herself, from her one bedroom apartment, where she lives alone….. “You took a cab!! How much did that cost you?” Was a simple transition to my suggestion for giving her a ride home. I drive her back to her apartment, and when in front she first just said “ok goodnight” now keep in mind that at this point I hadn’t even gotten her number, so obviously that wasn’t going to be the end. I say good night, then say “Katie….(super long pause)… I really need to go to the bathroom, would you mind if I come in?” She said yes (obviously) so I go in, pretend to pee, then come out and start making out with her. We were kissing for a few minutes, then I start to really escalate, and with one hand behind her head lightly pulling her hair, I took the other hand and started rubbing her pussy (over her pants). She quickly but gently guides my hand away, then pulls away and says “you should go”. Her words said one thing, but she was still grabbing me tightly, and as I started pulling away, she held me harder. This made me think that she very clearly wanted to have sex, but just didn’t want to say it, so I tried again with the same progression. Makeout, move hand to pants, she moves my hand away and tells me to go, we did this like 5 times before she finally seemed serious, and when her body language changed, I decided to leave… WHAT WENT WRONG!!! Anyway I'm definitely not upset, quite the opposite, my fist night out in like a year, and I ended up in a girls apartment, if I can keep this momentum going, I’ll probably pull by next Friday. Eye on the prize!!
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