I was doing a good job getting physical and attempting to lead, but a problem I noticed is it was very difficult to lead chicks that were with there friends. I would go on the dance floor, grind with a chick for 5 minutes then try to bounce her to somewhere more secluded but I was unable to.

I walked into a club and saw two older looking woman, one in her early 30's the other one looked like she was in her 40's. I went over to them and yelled, "Happy birthday" and went and hugged them, the younger of the two was like, "How'd you know it was my birthday?"

I started leading her around the venue, dancing, then back to her friend, then upstairs on a couch. I made out with her pretty heavily on the couch and started running my fingers over her crotch. Throughout the night I kept saying, "Man, i'm hungry" and "I want to get something to eat later". I later told her she should come with me to get food before I leave, she didn't want to leave her friend though; I am still horrible with dealing with 2 sets, I should of brought a chode in to distact the friend. I left her and went and danced with some other girls, then went back to her later and told her i'm about to leave, she decided to come with me. We got to the hotel and I realized I didn't have my key to get in, I had to drive back to the clubs and pickup my wing who had the key. When we got there he gave me the key and I told him to go find Tyler Durden, went back into the room with the girl and fucked her.

Things I did incorrectly:
Didn't preoccupy her friend correctly
Logistics

Things I did correct:
Heavy physicality
Leading
Qualified once I recognized how high my perceived value was



After the weekend I took time to remember all the cool stuff that I did and a funny thing occured; I didn't even remember I got laid. Like, all the other cool shit I did (sarging strippers, having girls tell me i'm hot and spanking my ass, etc) was actually more fun than the lay itself. Goes to show that it IS all about the process, not necessarily the results. When i'm with a girl I actually like, sometimes I purposely forget about what my 'next move' will be and I just lay back and enjoy the positive vibe. It's so easy to get caught up with leading/qualification/establishing deep rapport/physicality etc etc that sometimes you forget the basic shit, like loving yourself above all else and enjoying the moment.

When most people start sarging they suck, and they slowly get better, but the results arn't fast enough and they don't get lays so they quit. They want instant gratification, that's not how this game works though. But the flip side of it is that once you do get consistent lays (or a girl friend, whatever the case may be) then you can appreciate it so much more because of the effort you put into it.