I'll keep it as short as possible:

Met a girl at Yoga, after yoga she said she was runs a new dance class, I had nothing else going on so decided to go. It turns out no one showed up but the two of us, we started dancing and it got intimate. I had a boner and she looks down and giggled at it while dancing. She later told me she was not sexually satisfied with her boy friend who she has been dating for 4 years. I asked her to come to the club with me tonight and she did.

I met her later that night, we danced for a bit then sat down and she told me more about how disappointed she was in her boyfriend. I BF destroyed him by reframing his behaviors to make him seem needy (which honestly he does seem like that). This girl has NO sexual attraction for him, she won't even have sex with him anymore, but she is such a sweet girl and is looking for someone to marry and is just so emotionally invested in him she dosent want to let go of him despite not being attracted sexually at all.

I tried kissing her, I could tell she wanted me but she was resisting so I decided instead of arguing about it I needed to boost her state so I asked her to dance. After we danced I brought her to my car and we made out REALLLY heavy. She was so horny, she even told me she was wet.

The next day she told me she fantasized about having sex with me all day, when I told her we should meet up and fuck she just talks about how bad she would feel for her boyfriend (even though she admits she has no sexual attraction for him).


I already did some pretty hardcore BF destroying techniques, his value is SO low in her eyes right now and this girls loves me, she wants me sexually and emotionally but her logical mind won't allow her to do it. Does anyone have any good ideas here on how to proceed?

Be warned, I'm about to preach here a little bit.
You say she is looking for someone to marry? Are you prepared to fill that position? If not, be careful... I'm not saying you are trying to ruin her life, or anything. Make sure she understands what you want, and can expect the same things from your connection. I'm just letting you know that you should respect what she wants from a relationship. Off my soapbox. Now, ironically, to talk about CHANGING what she wants from a relationship.

Okay, so, for BF destroyers, it sounds like you already did some bashing on your own. How exactly did you do that? Because if you did your "reframing" in an almost defensive way, being hostile towards him, then that was a mistake. If not, then good. Try using the Straw Man Technique, if you haven't already. I can't post links, but it is located in the Mid-Game section if you have trouble finding it. Using a non-hostile tactic could work, although I believe you may already be too far in at this point. In any event, I would at least give a variation of it a try. I'd say you've done well so far, just keep pressing her! You've made a kiss close on a dancer in a LTR, so be proud of yourself first and foremost. Be persistent. Women like persistence, as long as you come off as CONFIDENT, not desperate. There is a difference. Be driven, and show her what you want. If you be a sexually powerful alpha male, you will continue to fill the role her BF simply can't. She is already measuring you up to him, and it seems as though you are winning. There is nothing I can say to you other than keep at it. She will break under pressure eventually.
Best of luck to you! I want to see how it goes.

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"The PU world is the real world. What others live in is a bubble of lies made by someone to hide them from the real world because it scares them." -Ezo

No offense. But I feel like that Comment ^ Was mostly thrash. And you should look up BF destroyers, to know exactly what they are.


Moving on. I will preach a little. Yeah, this girl is looking to marry. You are pulling her away from a bla, bla, bla. You know what comes next. I personally wouldn't bash her BF, but instead just have a fling. Because, if you leave her. you fucked up her plans.

And yes, she wasn't attracted to him sexually. So she would be looking for someone else. But she had the fortune (or misfortune) to met you. And have BFDestroy Therapy applied on her.

Basically saying. I hope, you don't traumatize this girl.



Moving on. To what you need.

Just say that you want to hang out. Make it like a non-sexual. "Spontaneous invitation"
(Hey! I've got tickets for this show, my friend was going to come, but he can't come anymore. Are you avaialble!?

Etc. Then once sex happens. SPONTANEOUSLY (In her eyes) Just keep in touch with her. Give her that mental nurturing.

And she will slowly gravitate towards you.


The End.