Greetings to all the real PUA's.
I'm currently an AFC pushing myself hard to make the transition. Over the last two weeks I have been reading everything I can get my hands on related to the game, and last night it paid off - big. I wanted to share a couple of instances, and then also ask for help and pointers on a few things.
I hit a club with two of my AFC friends last night and tried my best to peacock out. White, Armani button up shirt sleeve shirt (top three buttons undone), rune necklace, and thumb rings (it's a start - I know I will need to get more inventive). My two AFC friends looked a little confused when they saw me, and razzed my pretty hard - but I soldiered on.
We got to the club early, and there was a HB10 sitting at the bar with two of her friends. When I got closer I noticed that she had a strong eastern European accent...great, I thought...my first target as a wannabe PUA...she's a 10 and a potential language barrier. I did a shot and approached.
I noticed that she was dancing in her seat and doing this strange "wax on, wax off" move. I looked over and began:
Me: You look like a street mime on crack, do you do mime for a living?
HB: Laugh - no, I'm dancing, and I'm quite good
Me: Well since I'm sitting in the judge's chair, I call it mime, and I give it only a passing grade (smile).
HB: Gives me inquisitive look.
Me: I return it, and look her up and down,..."Yep, certainly the body of dancer, but the rhythm is in question." The good news is there are things you can do to improve.
HB: Sure. She looks away at her friends, and glances back. I am now looking straight ahead, not at her though.
HB: Well, dance God, are you going to tell me?
Me: I will tell you and then we (implying her friends and me) will have to watch you put it into practice.
HB: Go on (smiles)
Me: First, I can tell a lot about your personality from your moves - you are strong and independent (this is really based on the eastern European roots she strongly shows) and based on the circular motions you were doing, it means you open to many things, although you stopped half circle - meaning you have great ideas, but let your fear get in the way of executing (like me almost not trying to hit on you..I'm thinking).
HB: Holy shit....blinks and says, "yes" (did I actually hear here right)?
Me: Now (big smile), you must first go out on the dance floor - for only 3 seconds though - look directly at us, and do the same move standing and with full circles - raise my eyebrows - use your adventurous side!
I give her a light punch in the arm, and she clings to me and says
HB: NO!! I can't do that!
I look at her friends and say:
Me: A little help here (smile)
They encourage and she goes out and does, while cracking up laughing.
Me: (Clapping), bravo!
I signal her back, as the AFC's are starting to form a perimeter of two feet on every side of her.
She comes back laughing and gives me a huge hug, and pinches my arm.
I think to myself WTF, I'm going to go for it...I kiss her on the lips lightly and tell her I won't even charge her.
She looks at me hard jokingly, waves her finger no, and smiles.
Me: Oh yeah, your friends are here - now let me show you the triple lindy crown dance move.
I pull her onto the floor in a dark corner, do a crazy swimming move and she laughs. I then put my arms around her waist and pull her in and we start grinding...while ducking down to the music and dancing, we start making out...she actually made the first move this time!! I loved it!!
We made out for about 5 min, and then she noticed her friends start to pack up - she said she had to go, but pulled me over, introduced me to all of her hot friends, put my number in her phone and kissed me again, in front of everyone...I must be in Heaven, I kept thinking....this isn't real...
They left, and I was inspired - hit the bar again, used the jealous girlfriend routine and my new found dance instructor routine, snagged another kiss and a number.
Then...my phone went off and HB10 was calling - her friends were heading home, and she wanted to meet to hit another bar!!
Bottom line, I screwed out of there, we hit one more club, back to her apartment and f closed - very hot!! I'm writing this from a coffee shop two blocks away.
One thing that did happen on the negative side (after HB10 left) was that an AMOG swooped in, grabbed the girl I was grinding with, whispered something to her, she looked at me, shrugged and walked away. I aksed her what was up, and she said she needed to catch up with her friends...the AMOG poisoned me somehow...I started to ask more, she sighed and walked away.
Should I have just turned my back on her midsentence, and walked away first?
My AFC friends were ragging on me when this happened (completely ignoring the fact that I had hooked up earlier with a 10). Bastards!
I need to find real sargers to hang with in the future!
CHAT