So I met this HB9 about a month back and I could tell she was in to me the whole night. I would make fun of her/ cocky funny/ control the situation type of game around her guy friends. Soon I was the leader of the males and she was digging it. Anyways I get her number and she leaves. I hit her up about 5-6 days later and invite her out to go boating/ fishing with me and my buddies girlfriends and she comes instantly. So we end up meeting up and my boy comes up and picks us up on the boat and takes us to our shark fishing spot. We drink a bit and start to hook up at a private location that I told her to follow me to. The whole night were fooling around until she had to go home to her parents.

Ive been trying to not look needy, but I hit her up 1nce ever 3-4 days to invite her to different parties/ maybe meet up at the beach. She always wants to, but the plans never pull through and I know she has a lot of guys chasing her, but she is interested. I invited her to the party that I'm throwing this week and she showed up and we hooked up, but wouldn't follow through on sex. I had all of her clothes off except for panties and she told me that she didnt know me well enough and that she has had sex with only 1 other person. How should I continue this girl and what not? Is she doing the LMR or do you think she is being generously honest? she's 18 and I am 22, but maybe she is actually making me work for a girl for once in my life.

just gona say it any thing she says right before actually fucking to not get fucked is lmr. its realy not that hard to get over if u know what to do. Try the classic freeze in situations like that. id advise reading 60 years of challenges stuff. He'd practically say just pull out ur dick and put her hand on ur dick lol it takes balls to do that. i dont know all the lmr senerios but look into that

Yeah, the whole ''pull your junk out and put her hand on it'' thing seems weird on levels you can't imagine.

I think that whenever LMR is encountered, act as if she's right. Make a serious face, start getting dressed and don't be weak and look at her. Tell her, she's correct and you are wrong about rushing things. There's no point in going ahead.

If she really wants it and is just putting up a barrier for the sake of the ''anti-slut'' imagery, this should shatter it.

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Yea I'm not sure about that whole pulling the junk out and what not. Cause my buddy told me that I should just go to my computer and start wackin it to some porn then look back at her and she if she is turned on. I don't really know if I could honestly do that with a straight face. When she said no I just laid there and we talked for a bit about gettin to know each other better and when a good time next week to meet up is. We'll see, but I kinda stopped pushing towards it when she told me she had sex with 1 person cause that could be the honest truth, but I will never trust women.

I have found out that the best thing that works for me is the case of LMR is - "You know what? I understand...[Sincere smile, plus a light kiss on the cheek]...I'm starving...lets go out and get something to eat..."

This not only shows that you're not there just for the sex, but also that you are a considerate person who cares about her inner feelings.

Switching on porn is not something I would usually suggest - we all are much better than that.

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really take her to the limit, drive her crazy, then you slam the breaks and she won't know what to do.

I'd just say, "you're right, but I've got better things to do if we're not having sex" then just end it quick, as soon as you start draggin it out she catches on to the game but she knows the minute you're serious she'll come back to the negotiating table.