| Yesterday I told you about my first ever experience in the field, I was able to close 2 women succesfully. Last night I went out again to sarge and to see whether I could continue my streak. I went out of town, to Amsterdam to be more specific. Women around here are known for their cockiness and I knew that I had to reach a higher level than I did Thursdaynight. Another big difference compared to thursdaynight was the grade of the women I was going to open. Since thursdaynight was my first experience I started with sixes. Now that, that approach was succesful I decided to go for 7s and higher now.
We arrived around 1.30 am, it was very busy and the music was very loud. We were looking for a good place to go to. I did some succesful approaches, but I could not manage to close them succesfully. Once a girl denied to play the 5 lies game with me, how can you turn the story around to make that she will play the game with you? Or is it better to accept and to continue with your routines?
So I was not succesful in the bar, but when in the bar a girl my buddy is dating sent us an invitation for an afterparty. We accepted the inviation.
It would be a good opportunity for me to practise my routines and to see how far I could go.
Once we got there it turned out that her girlfriend was a 9+. An astonishing blonde, with blue eyes. The most beautiful girl I have seen throughout the whole evening. This one would be hard to close succesfully, but I had to try. Very quickly I found that the level of interaction with this HB was different than on thursdaynight. Also for her I could say that she was very arrogant. Quite soon, my buddy and his date went to the bedroom and I was alone with this beautiful woman. I decided to use the same approach as I did thursday. I opened with "Who lies more" and afterwards I played the 5 lies game, I read her handpalm and told one of Incubus69 his stories to demonstrate higher value. She was very positive and she enjoyed the conversation we were having and she kept looking deep in my eyes. When reading her handpalm she just let me take her hand. When holding her hand I felt no tension at all, meaning that she was comfortable with me around. Still I felt that I did not demonstrate enough value so we went fluff talking and we were laughing all the time, but all of a sudden I lost the lead in the conversation and it became too serious. Meaning that, all of a sudden, all the positive tension there was between us got lost.
Here I need your help, how can I make sure that I demonstrate enough value and what are good subjects to fluff talk about, so that I keep the created tension and I can succesfully close her. What are good routines/stories to demonstrate higher value. Same for the fluff talk. In other words, how should you approach women which are arrogant? How to make sure that they lose their shield and that you can close them succesfully? Please help me by replying to this field report or send me a private message.
Svennos1234
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Just started as a PUA. Currently reading books and I love to visit this site and gather all sorts of information about the world of seduction.
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