Field Report- Day Game (need feedback plz)



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PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2012 8:47 pm 
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First attempt at indirect daygame so don't be too harsh any critcism or evaluation wu d be great plz tell me wat im doing wrong so i can change it any tips would amazing thanks.
So i see a 2 set outside a shop i walk past (don't know y still makin my mind up lol they were slightly older then anticipated) then a walk past over my shoulder:
me: quick question i need to go in a sec but my mates girlfriend saw pictures of him and his ex on his phone she tld him to delete them or she's leaving him he asked me for sme help and i thought i'd ask a girls advice so what would u guys do if the same thing happened to you.
them: welll blah blah blah i think its ok blah blah blah
me: cool well i think shes just a bit crazy and a bit of a control freak (about to go to my next thread you look like close friends but a guy and a girl come into the set and start greating the other girls) hey man (to directly address the dude, man he looked pissed lol big dude aswell) u cool (shake his hand)
him: yh
(things just went awkard after that)
me: so what you guys up to
(one girl responds others look disinterested and want to go)
girl: wer just gonna chill
me:oh thats cool i gotta go nice meeting u (it was just too awkward but it was my first approach, i know i ejected too early and im regretting that but i didn't know how to overcome the awkwardness. Thanks for reading and any help wud be great :)


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PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2012 10:15 pm 
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first give yourself a pat on the back for approaching. be happy that you did it

second. I don't like to use opinion openers in the mall or for daygame. theres no real reason to use it so they know you are trying to hit on them but it shows you are too insecure to openly display it.

either you have to be 100% stealth or 100% overt.

indirect situational and find something interesting about them as if you just noticed and were suprised

or

direct and it already lays the foundation and intent

i'm still struggling with the aa myself though so goodluck

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PostPosted: Sat May 26, 2012 10:44 pm 
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thanks man i'll take that on board i do think they wer kinda confused at the start probably tryna figure out my intent LOL anyway thanks for the tips man much appreciated


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PostPosted: Sun May 27, 2012 5:06 am 
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well i think they know the intent if you are talking to them for any other reason than asking a question that relates to the setting

which is why direct is best, since they don't see that you are hiding behind some gimmick or line to talk to them.

however direct has to be done very well and i'm still mustering up the courage now to do my first direct approach

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