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PostPosted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 8:57 am 
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Okay this is a bit of a long story, so please be patient :D

so last night I was over at a friends house, and didn't know anyone. I became friends with all of them and started talking to this HB7. She lives right by me, so I asked for her number so we can hang out again. She gladly gave it to me, but than later on in the night I started talking to her bf/roommate, an HB9. After talking to her for a bit, I asked for her number as well, and when I was typing it in I was a little bit drunk and deleted her friend's number. I said oops, it's okay, I'll just replace it with your number" as a joke, and I'm not sure if she thought I was being an asshole. After that everyone passed out in the living room but I slept in the room. My buddy was handling the HB7, and he told me when I woke up, that the HB9 was talking about me all morning, saying things like, yea he's soo funny, he lives right by me, etc... She said that they were going to the beach today, and asked if we would like to come. He didn't get her number so when I called her this afternoon, she didn't answer. I left a message saying it was me, and no response...I wonder if I made an ass out of myself when I was drunk and didn't remember? However my friend told me I was fine and that the girls only said good/neutral things about me. He also said he thought the girls liked me by what they were saying too...


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Well, what is done is done. You can't go back and undo what ever you might have said or done last night. All I can say is this is why it's not a good idea to drink! Your game will always suffer.

Based on what your friend said you may not be in that bad of shape anyways, just roll with it.

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I agree with jsmooth. I think the only thing that went wrong was you took a drink. If it weren't for that you wouldn't have deleted the number. I've found that even one drink can be enough to throw me off my game, you may think it loosens up your tongue and overcomes AA, but it really causes you to lose focus.


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I completely agree, alcohol screws up your game! Only time I drink when sarging is if the HB buys me a drink.
Best way to handle this? Spice this event up and you may have a DHV routine. DHV spikes: you got friends that are cool (leader of men), you are desired by women (preselection); Transition: It is about alcohol, just see ask what she is drinking (Tom Collins) OMG, that drink nerely made me cry once or whatever.

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yeah, that's true...I like to get 2-3 drinks in me to loosen up but I'll try going in sober from now on and see how it goes. Thanks guys


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I agree with everyone here too, know your limit. General rule, if u are too drunk to legally drive u r too drunk to game good.

Sometimes all it takes is somthing silly like the phone number thing u did to lose interest, it sucks but has happened to me on occasion. Best bet is to play it off like it was nothing and try to recover. Show no emotion, show no remorse.

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the only problem i see is deleting the other girls number was a big IOI to the hb9

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