My Story:

Hi guys my real name is Youssef, my nikename is Jakk. I've posted a long time ago on this forum, back when i was living in Morocco (my native country), however pickup there using Mystery's techniques just doesn't work. The reason is, Morocco is a conservative country (very in the religion stuff) so the girls, which makes things quite difficult, and honestly i've tried to Kill AA by talking to 10 stranger girls and what i got was them escaping from me, which is understandable coming from muslim girls.

Today i'm 21, last year was my first year in france, now i live in perpignan since last year and honestly i don't like it because there is a LOT OF RACISM. There is this big stereotype of "being arab = being terrorist", which i believe is nonsense.

I had a relation last year, with a ugly fat french arab last , but because i was a nice guy , needy , insecure .... she cheated on me with a rich guy. I tried to forgive her but in the end i decided to stop chasing her. Since then i have a lot of difficulties with women, i dated a kazakhstan girl (who was ugly like my the right ball of my penis) for one week, and a french girl (very ugly as well) for one month. I have finished my exams friday and yesterday i was in club, and man girls in this club are BIG BITCHES, just the way they are looking at me made me insecure in the begining, but i managed to TRY to dance with some (10 in total) and i got rejected, and really i'm feeling good right now. However, i think there will be always this racism problem and i dunno how to overcome it.

My issues:

-I talk to myself like a psychopath (i've reached 20% of my goals to overcome it).
-I still have AA even though i talk to 3 people a day.
-I dunno what to say after hi ( which fucks up everything afterwards )

My goals For 2013 : Inner Game

-To overcome Anxiety.
-Become confident and dominant.
-Have mature masculine boundary ( say no and hear no ).
-Help others to master their inner game the moment i have mastered mine (or before).

Material i've studied:

Last year i have studied The mystery method, and Deep inner game by david deangelo and doctor paul (which i loved). And now i'm reading a book about speed reading by tony buzan and a book called "the power of NOW".

Well i hope hearing from you guys!!!

Day 1:

Hi guys, me again, today's mission was to reduce AA. What i did was that i talked about direction to 6 people. The first one was a homless women, she didn't know where was what i was looking for, the second is an HB4 blond with her man who tought i was hitting on her so she gave a "no WE don't know" in way that seemed to me like "i don't want to talk to you, you're disturbing me" so i didn't want to push the button far, i ejected politely. Then same question to 2 girls of age 17 or 16, same answer. And then i met a lovely old lady who showed me where the place is, after her another old lady who gave me a map to look for the place myself.

Well that's i guys, what do you think of it and if you have other AA kil exercices i would appreciate it.

Great work JAkk.

Next time, try asking for directions... and then going with more questions like: which street? or the name of another shop or, do you live here.. you seem to know the area well? just try to get in more than two sentences. then -BOOM!- eject with Pleasure meeting you, or put your hand forward and introduce yourself. "I'm JAkk. What's your name?" Keep me posted and good luck.

For Street Game you have to dress. Make sure your clothes are far above any other average guy. As a foreigner out of your own country and cultural background it even more important.

Go straight into a shop an tell a good looking sales girl: "Make me look like any woman willing to die for knowing me!" - must not be expensive, even H&M can be a great choice. Take care for good shoes.

Dress high, calm down, approach from the angle, never from the front, you'll see different results.

@Nightblade

Thanks man, i didn't think of it before i'm gonna try this tomorrow!!

Nice, mate. But one thing that is good for overcoming AA is trying to do small talk instead of just asking functional questions. I'm also doing this exercise of talking to strangers in the street, and the day before yesterday I had a good chat with the guard in the street down below. I started asking if a gallery near to where we were had opened that day. Then you go splicing it with other things, make questions, jokes, etc.

@DeusRexx

Great tip man, i've already started buying some new clothes and i think i'm gonna get great results with this.

@Jonez

Thanks for feedback Jonez, the problem i've got is that i don't know how to start a conversation nor to maintain it. Usually what happens is that a conversation starts somehow, like me sharing something when the conversation is going between some people, i don't know how to lead the conversation when i am with person , in other words i don't khow how to respond , and as a result the conversation flats.

Just link things, y'know? For example, the girl tells you she teaches maths, you say something like "I hate maths!", or talk about something related. When you are nervous is harder for things to come to your head, so don't worry that much. Also, some people like to talk a lot, so just let 'em talk, haha.

@Jonez

Great piece of advice man, i got it now.

Great journal so far , keep it up bro!! I must say that title is genius! Hooked me from the start !!

Claws

Good luck Jakk. Interesting you believe racial problems exist. I believe you may need to engage with this to build your inner game. It's something you can get over dude. Let me tell you something, because I am British-Indian: I've closed a variety of girls this week. Eastern-European, British-Indian, Chinese, and White British. I also closed Black girl but she tells me she had a BF.

Race may prevent attraction in some sets, fuck those sets. With confidence in your abilities gained over time you will close time and time again.

Am I saying there is no racial problem? No. But what I am saying is, overall, it doesn't really matter.

By the way I felt like kinda weird after club game recently man lol. It's very different from day or bar game. I'm still learning the dynamics of it myself.

Good to see you post anyway. Head over to my journal once in a while man.

Peace & Love,
R

@ohforsure

Thanks man your advice is very uplifting, i tought i was alone for a sec . BIG thanks man!!

Day 2:

Hey guys, me again. Today's objectif was to TRY to have a little chat with some people, and here is what i've done. I took the bus from the university to downtown, when i arrived i walked my way to the park. The first person i met was a man sitting on a bench i asked him where was a certain place, he told me where it was but the man next to him wasn't so cooperative, you see what i mean. the second was a middle aged man who told me where the place was, actually i was looking for congress palace. AND the third person was an old lady, and man i didn't like the way she talked to me, she was with her husband who was scared when he saw me, and this lady told me "to look somewhere there" as if i was a piece of trash.

At this point i started to feel frustrated, my mind run a movie in my head of all the same racist rejection that i had before. According to Doctor Paul, a Hurt can only affect you if your boundary is weak, to strenghten it you have hear NO and say NO, this is when i sayed to myself to accept it as it is and move on.

I then talked to two girls, who smiled to me and answered me, and finally i went to the congress palace. In there was the recepitionist, who was an old lady as well, but this time i HAD a conversation, we talked about the different speakers who come there and we talked about renewable energy since it's what i am studying. After this, i felt exhausted mentally and physically, so i went back to home.


And that's it guys let know what you think.

@Claws


thanks man i like your pic of zorro as well!