Before saying much, let me say this one goes out to priv@te and those who responded to my post (getting physical ) a few days back. Before becoming a member here i pulled into this one chick and all went well as it always does but i failed to cross the bridge, i simply could not get to kiss her even though my chances were just as good. Frustrated i had to figure out what i was doing wrong and decided to ask the forum who responded to my cry.

However i have read "The Game" but figured out that not everything always works by the book but i must admit though that there are four things that i value the most which i learnt from "The Game", these are namely confidence, humor, patience and routine.

I am of dark skin, in my mid thirties and not the best looking guy there is in the world. To cut the long story short, last night i went to one of my absolute favorite hang out spots in Zurich to watch a soccer match, germany was playing and germans came in their numbers, the SPAM was at its best. Beside the match, i had no big intentions but just to enjoy the moments with the crowd.

When i entered the hall i spotted this one girl in a small group, she was just too beautiful even to look at probably the best looking girl there was in the enire hall just pure food for the eyes.

After buying myself a drink i squeezed my way past the group and secured myself a cool place with a good view to the screen nearby, the crowd was just overwhelming and being someone of color i did not want to embarrass myself by trying the impossible. However i came to realize that sometimes being different works out to your advantage because you stands out in the crowd and you can attract attention "which made us two in this case".

During the match we made eye contact at-least twice which i thought was by coincidence but no, it turns out that she saw me when i walked in and wanted to see where i was standing. The first half played through, everyone went outside for a gasp of some fresh and so did i with intentions at-least to see her again but to my disappointment i didn't see her and thought that was it.

At-least 20 min into the second half, i saw her again almost at the same position where she stood before but this time round she had some male company which to me was clear she was taken and decided to change focus. Towards the end of the match stood yet another beautiful girl in front of me, the type that i would talk to and decided to shift my interest towards her instead but unfortunately when the match finished, i tried to interact with her but she showed no interest at all and simply disappeared into the crowd.

Suddenly there was a lot of movement and i could not spot the other girl though for me it was clear she was gone and i had nothing to lose but she was worth looking at. However she had remained standing at the same place with this one guy which at first i believed was the boyfriend. When i saw her, i got very courageous and wanted to say hello to her regardless the situation. At this point i did recall reading something about dealing with alpha males in a group but not boyfriends, however i had to find a way to make contact with both to cease the moment. I approached the guy and asked him about the match and which team he supported completely ignoring the girl but then she showed interest in the subject making room allowing me to introduce myself to both.

We spoke briefly about the match, the vibe and all then i asked them if they were in company of friends which i anywhere knew of already and she said yes then i asked what they were up-to next which led me to ask them if there was room for one more person in the group and she said of course. We spoke further off topic and she told me about some music event which will be taking place on sunday which she and her friend will be attending and asked me if i would be interested to join them and i said of course, if it is an invitation by all means.

While in the hall, she asked for my number so she can call and give me directions incase i don't find it, i made jokes that she had to be in-touch with my grandma to get my dials otherwise it was not possible which she found very funny. I did not give her the number at this point, instead i led them outside to join their friends where i got introduced to the group and asked them how they know each other. Eventually she told me that she knows only one girl in the group but just met the guys during the break, WOW…! i could not believe what i just heard and figured out that the other guy was trying to get to her but he was simply too slow.

At this point she had distanced herself from this guy and only chatting with me, she asked again if i was going to give her my number or not which i eventual did but under four eyes without the other guy noticing. Just under 10 minutes, her friend decided to leave and i was sure she was leaving too but she didn't, instead she went to the bathroom, me and these two guys waited for her to get back, during this time the guys were curious to know if i got her number and i told them no, she got my number and they asked me how i did it, my answer was simply perfect practice makes it perfect !

From here it was clear the guy lost interest cause he voluntarily stepped out of the game. As soon she got back, the two guys left and it was just the two of us, we stood there for a while but then she attracted a lot of guys attention who came by to compliment her which made me somewhat uncomfortably and decided to take her away from there and offered to show her around which for her was a good idea (yeah, why not she said )

We ended up at a river bank close to the venue where we spoke and laughed just to map her out then she began telling me that she saw me when i came into the hall and i told her that i also saw her and she asked what i thought then, of course prompting me to comment on her looks.

After a while we went into the bar and it was all clear she was interested, i did some body contact tests just to see how she reacted and she played along, we got some drinks and took a seat in very nice place with hardly anyone and i broke the ice, this was the moment to make or break it.

Though i read Dicarlo's escalation ladder which Priv@te sent me a link of, i realized i was familiar with most of the things but i was failing to put them into practice. In combination with my own, i worked the magic and could kiss her.

Anyway, i am meeting her tomorrow for the music session and will give you guys feed back to tell you what happened next.

Again guys, never doubt yourself nor your potential.