| Hey guys,
Me and my best friends (girls and guys) went by the nearest pool bar yesterday for a weekend hangout.
I met two of them and then we were seposed to meet a few others on the way and apparently one of the girls was bringing one of her friends (which no one of us have met before except her).
On our way, we stumbled across the girls going the same direction (small town).
I immediately noticed a cute, rather shy, very pretty girl (HB8) next to one of my friends' girlfriend, and immediately approached. She was not surprised, and took it pretty naturally. I hugged my friend's girlfriend, like I always do when we meet, and then looked at the HB8.
Before she said anything, I introduced myself and said something about how rude of me it was not to hug her as well (as her friend is right next to her and I just hugged her), and immediately she offered to hug me as well.
We hugged, I noticed I've seen her on a few friend's facebook accounts (small town again) and started a small talk on the way to the pool bar.
My other friend (guy) that was walking with us called one of the guys that was seposed to arrive with us at the pool bar, and apparently he was close by with a car and had one seat left in the car. I offered to walk the girls over and my friend went to join the people in the car. (It was a 20 minute walk, so some friends took the car while the others walked the way, which at this point was me and my friend's girlfriend and her friend).
At some point I noticed multiple IOIs (laughing, kino) and decided to act. I said "Give me some room! " and entered between them. I told her friend (my friend's girlfriend) to hold my left hand, then after she did (we're good friends so it wouldn't seem odd to anyone) I asked HB9 to hold my other hand, and we walked like that all the way to the pool bar. I had created a hook point, both verbally and physically.
After that, we spent the whole night talking, she kept giving me IOIs so I isolated her asking if she wanted to go the bar and get some drinks. We collected money from the group and went to get beers. We were missing for about half an hour, talking at the bar. We had great rapport. She was interesting and apparently worked at the same company as I, but at a different location. We found out I had 6 people I know work with her, friends which I've lived with for half a year.
She kept following me the whole night and talking to me all the time. At some point I got really bummed to hear she had a boyfriend for 3.5 years (She's twenty), and I got confused as to why she was giving me all that attention and IOIs.
I couldn't let her go and apparently it was mutual. Now I have this thing against killing relationships, but it seems theirs had died a long time ago and she was looking for an escape. I figured while I work into this, I need to know more and see if I'm not ruining somebody else's life doing this. So when we all left, I told her we should meet at a later time, maybe at work when I'm at the other location.
I didn't ask for it, but she immediately said yes and gave me her phone number without me even asking for it. We kept talking and then everyone started walking home. About an hour later I got a call from her and 3 other friends (the other friends are my best friends in the last 3 years, any one could have called but she did), saying she wanted to meet me again NOW.
I told her I can't and that I'm going to sleep. I needed to think this over. I was ruining it for someone else.
I told her we'd meet some other day and she immediately responed with a "YES!".
Now I'm stuck as to what do with this whole thing...
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