I number closed a girl that I know has been attracted to me in the past. I told her I wanted to kiss her and then leaned in. She totally went for it and then I played it off and almost used it as a neg. She gave me her number and then I told her to go have fun and to find me later. I had worked the fact that I was hungry into the convo a while earlier, and said "we'll go to Kenny's" (Local pizza place). Now that she had my number, I did something wrong. While we were still in the club, I texted her "We're going to Kenny's in a minute, I'll come find you". I know this was wrong, I was acting on impulse and fucked up. I then said "actually you find me". She did come see me soon thereafter, and I grabbed her by the hand, gave her a twirl and said "Alright, I lied. I didn't really want to go to Kenny's because I'm still having fun. But I'm going soon" to which she replied "okay text me". I said "you text me when you're ready to leave, do you think you can handle that (cocky and funny)?". She answered yes and after that I had lost her I think. I didn't even acknowledge her after this and went to Kenny's myself. What can I now do to win her back over and maybe get laid out of all this? Like I said, she was extremely touchy and we were talking with our legs fully touching, she would laugh and put her head right in my crotch and touch me for far too long. Our connection was great and I used a lot of bait hook reel release. I need to get this girl. I've had a huge crush on her for awhile. Please help.

RAZZI

Also, I had her completely qualifying herself to me. I had her and then fucked it up. Can someone help me on how to salvage it?

Your wording implies desperation even here. OK, so you did well and you attracted her attention. Good for you. But you are using words like NEED. That's not good. That's the AFC in you. Your putting that P_____ on a pedestal. You are being needy, but your not that far off from being a true player. It sounds like you are playing cat and mouse, but not having fun with it. You are too concerned with analyzing everything. Also the whole we're leaving, no we're not thing was a little weird. It sucks, but once you reach weird in a girls head there is rarely any coming back from that. My advice to you is to let this one go at least for now. She will keep drawing you back to that AFC frame of mind.


I know this is not at all what you want to hear.
Good luck.