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Just came across Sashapua recently and kind of found a new appreciation for the Direct game/honest way. The following day of watching his videos (And a combination of no fap month haha), I chatted up some girls and eventually got one girl's number (cute colombian girl). Later on she asked if I was down for a blind date. At first I was like "Uh.. not really! I already know what you look like" hah. Eventually I agree to going on a blind date with her sister though.
After getting the sister's number, I text her a couple days later, and even briefly talked to her on the phone a little later to make plan. I eventually set up plans to meet her at our local campus. I wasn't as nervous as I thought I would be, but I wasn't 100% comfortable.
Are you guys 100% comfortable before a date? I wasn't too worried, but I do feel myself becoming more alert, especially since it was a blind date! I actually freestyled in the car to instrumentals on the way there, helps a lot I suggest you guys try it haha.
Anyway, when I met her I was just going to give her a hug, but I actually went to kiss her on the cheek and got her a bit of her ear/earing. LOL. I quickly forgot about it and just went direct, telling her I thought she looked sexy (she smiled/laughed). Maybe the fact that she is hispanic made the kiss on the cheek more acceptable. Idk.
I had good conversation in the car with her on the way to mini-golf about random topics with eye contact here and there, but I didn't really kino much. When getting to the place, when it came time to pay I didn't really think much about if I was going to pay or if she would cover her share. Felt a tiny bit of awkwardness, asked the guy if he accepted credit (even though I had cash.. idk) and paid for it. I do feel good about being a 'provider' and treating women with respect, but in this case its a blind date so should it be 50/50? Do you guys think I should be like "We're paying separately" here? I feel like some say to pay, others say making her pay in that situation is 'alpha'. I don't know.
Anyway, did the cliche 'show her how to shoot' thing. Good conversation the whole time with some funny teasing. I wish I gave more kino though. At least I gave her a little more when we finished because when we went to the parking lot, I played music decently loud from my car and had her teach me some latin dancing outside haha. She got embarrassed after a little from the people of the golf course watching (I didnt give two shits lol) so we ended it.
I drove her back to campus and showed her some music and had some good convo on the way. When I arrived at the campus parking lot.. we had the 'it was nice meeting you' hug and kiss on cheek for both. When she was about to leave I said, "You forgot my goodbye kiss" with my cheek out. When she went come in I turned but not in time for her lips.. HOW DO I FUCK THAT UP? lol she went in so fast I didn't get it. I NEVER miss that. haha. She backed up and paused a second looking at me like we were gonna actuallyl kiss, but only for a second before she left so I couldn't do anything.
That happened monday. I texted her Wednesday with
"Bet you cant read this without smiling! See, you're doing it right...now"
Her: "that was a good one not gonna lie!"
Me: "So it that the best dance lessons Ima get out of ya? hah"
No Response.
I'm thinking about calling her tomorrow/later today (Thursday) and setting up a day2. Maybe give it one more day I don't know. Not really sure what to do for day2 either but I'll think of something. Any thoughts on what I could have done better/differently? I was in a good mood and the conversation was fun/teasing but also learning about each other, so it's not as bad as it seems. I'm just giving you guys the things that stick out. Thanks for reading!
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