Hi all,

I'm completely new to the game and have been practicing openers and midgame gambits infield during the past 2 weeks. The following is a small observation on my part. Correct me if I'm wrong but would seem there are minor variations to how its done in my home country Malaysia. This is probably due to cultural differences between european and western countries, as well as language barriers. We are a country in southeast asia, just below Thailand.

Openers

-Avoid going for the standard openers such as "a quick question" as there are too many chances for this to go wrong. Despite English literacy being relatively high compared to our neighboring countries, some women may not understand you. Instead, with drink in hand, try to briskly walk round the club and observe which sets are english educated. Something I found works best is to go for a natural approach with non-verbal cues before going in gung ho.. but obviously don't take too long as well. If she picks up on it, you're definitely going to lower your DHV.

- Don't make your openers too complex. Be direct. Due to cultural barriers, they may not understand your question. Avoid negs. For example, despite being educated, most locals will misunderstand questions like "What have you got going for you beside your looks?" and will probably take it as a complete insult and shut you out instantly. At best, you'll get a big frown and a "HUH?!"


Midgame

-If you're going for tongue in cheek flirts, make it slightly more exaggerated. Only a small percentage of women here seem to understand subtler tongue in cheek comments and might take you seriously. Just add a little exaggerated "HAHA" behind your attempt and it should work alright. Once again, make it direct instead of complex.

-Despite all the cultural and language barriers, Kino escalation is a lot more subtle and slower. All the usual hints of IOIs would be there of course. Just a lot more subtle so you'll have to be extra alert to pick up on it. This is probably due to us being a very conservative country in general. The exception is that tourist pubs and clubs are different compared to the local joints. Stealth attraction works VERY well, but don't go overboard. Be very very subtle about it. Smooth works. Aggresive not so much.

I figure thats all I have to say for this time. Will update on it as I learn more.
Btw, do give me a holla if any of you guys are in Kuala Lumpur. Would love to see how experienced PUAs would do it.

Cheers!

I live about 15 minutes from KL, by the way.

Yes, what you say is true, especially about the part where the ladies do not understand the subtle tongue-in-cheek comments. They're a mostly conservative people, but you'd be surprised how a club setting and a bit of booze can make approaches less tense for them.

One more thing I notice is how when there is a mixed group, the guys I run into sometimes act as if their lady friends' mannerisms have rubbed off on them a little. They are more than likely to cock-block you, and they do it just like your typical attention-whoring bitches.

In my experience, I've found that ladies in mixed groups are more receptive to me and my friends' approaches. I suppose that this is in part due to the fact that many of them hang out in one group or clique and welcome the opportunity to meet different people. Men, not so much. I've approached groups where I just casually glance at everyone at the group, and the men eye me suspiciously and either pull the ladies closer beside or behind them, or move themselves in between me and them.

One fun thing to do is engage everyone at the start so it doesn't look like you're trying to pull something off. Sometimes AMOGging and making fun of the men works, and it can result in laughter in the group and a good time. However, if they're insecure, be prepared for a good size-up. The ladies are also quite receptive to foreigners, as long as you come in with a smile.

Note to anyone who wants to visit Kuala Lumpur: Do NOT go to the Beach Club unless you want to be hit on by tranny prostitutes, I kid you not.