So Sat night I went out to clubs/bars and my goal was to open the first set I saw. I didnt care if the girls were fat, hot, tall, whatever. This helps me to get in a social mood. So I enter the club and open the first girls but they are leaving. They smile at me and invite me out with them to another club. I decline b/c there were too many girls in this club to leave. Goal accomplished (in a social mood). I then opened another 2 set (indirect) who were very receptive (smiling) but it fizzled.....i admit i gave up on the interaction.

I head upstairs to a really loud 2nd floor which is like a huge dancefloor with couches on the peripherary. I see a girl come out of the bathroom who is smoking hot! I open her indirect and its fucking on. Just opened with hi (smile). Teased her a little....and said lets go to the dancefloor. Im making intense eye contact with her and I pull her in and make out with her. I take her off the dancefloor to the couches.

Before we get there i say.....Listen I saw u over there and I thought u were fucking sexy......I wanna be completely honest with u......I wanna fuck u. Im just a really honest person and I think u are so fucking sexy.
She says to me.... I dont know I dont wanna just have a ONS with u and never see u again. (I was not sure what to say....her Anti-Slut defense was HIGH). Anyways I take her to the couch....run some routines....She starts kissing my neck and shit... I put her hand on my dick. Logistics screwed me tho, she was driving three of her friends. I got her # and were going on a date tonight.


GUYS what do u do when u tell a girl u wanna fuck her and she's like.....ahh Im not that type of girl.....or Im not looking for a ONS....????
Also guys, she kinda accused me of being a player....I was coming off 2 playerish....running too many routines.....when I got that vibe I brought it down and just had a normal convo.....u guys ever get accused of that??? How u handle it? Im taking this girl on a date tonight and gonna try my best to pull her to a hotel room

I was laughing as I read your post. I always get these kinds of replies either I am not that type of girl or you look like a player. These are all shit tests. I'll describe how to reply to those statements but first. See the problem with you was you told the girl you just wanted to fuck her and that thought is automatically programmed to something bad in a girls head. She could be wanting to fuck more than you but since these thoughts are programmed in her head to reject the offer she acts by those programmed reactions. What you have to do is to make sure she gets no such thoughts. If you want to communicate that you want to fuck her do so non-verbaly look at her lips if give her all indirect indications your interested in fucking her but just don't say it in a 100% clear way. The reason is because you don't want those programmed thoughts to be turned on. Now how do you reply to those statement. When a girl tells me I look like a player or something like that I first mock it and laugh and then assure her I am not a player for example

She: You look like a player !
Me: Oh yeah definitely. I play Soccer, Football and Basketball
She: (Laughs or whatever It really makes no difference)
Me: But seriously I am not the type of guy who tries to get many girls and be like one of these kewl player guys. I like to meet girls and if we both like each other etc...

If she says " I am not that type of girl" I respond
Me: Oh. What about if you had some drinks (with a semi serious face)
She: (Usually she laughs but again it makes no difference)
Me: But seriously I am not that type of guy who has sex on the first night. I like to wait till we're both ready to have sex

Then she will be confident and wont have those thoughts of you of you just fucking her and leaving. Then you take her to your place start things slow and bang her. If in the middle of making out or something she says something like we're not having sex tonight or etc.. you say " yes we're not" and just continue doing what you did. Now this is not lying to girls because that's what they want even though they say that they don't want that. It seems crazy but girls are like that. They say they hate assholes but always chase them and stay with them etc.. and many more examples. So your not really lying to the girl when you tell her you wont fuck the first night because that's exactly what she wants but just doesn't admit it because she has to justify it in her brains. I do this all the time and it works for me.

- Amazing Art -

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I can tell u know ur shit man. Good advice.

Yeah, im not gonna tell a girl I wanna fuck her. There is no need to do this. We were making out, pulling her hair, etc. In the future Im gonna express it non-verbally and tell her lets get out of here. Im not gonna drop the Fbomb again. I might say i wanna go crazy with u....not sure.

"Me: But seriously I am not that type of guy who has sex on the first night. I like to wait till we're both ready to have sex
If in the middle of making out or something she says something like we're not having sex tonight or etc.. you say " yes we're not" and just continue doing what you did."


Im gonna remember this for next time

This is what I say if they pull the I'm-not-ready-to-fuck card once I have them at a lay location; I say "Cool. It's settled then. I don't want anything to ever happen between us that we're both not 100% comfortable with. So don't worry, I won't try to go further than you're absolutely ready to go." Then continue on with either a short freeze out, or right back to making out. I get her really turned on...before long, she's practically (or literally) begging for it.

If they say they don't want just a ONS early on (before getting to the lay location), I say "No worries. It's settled then. I don't want anything to happen between us that we're both not 100% comfortable with. So now that sex is off the table, we can settle in and have a fun night." Then I proceed with the rest of the pick up - normally comfort building at that stage.

One time I was with a girl who'd already expressed her concerns about a ONS. We were getting pretty physical on the couch when I felt her tense up and go a little cold. I told her "Look, I know you're unsure about some things. Here's the deal; I'm not going to try to take you back in your bedroom and fuck you unless you specifically ask me to do so. So, no presure. I won't push for more than you're ready for. Now we can relax and enjoy the moment." Then I went right back to kissing her neck, ect. 20 minutes later she says to me, "I want you to take me to my bed."

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