Hey guys. I am 23 and my pseudonym is BassLad.

I thought i'd use this as both a journal for both my thoughts on life in general, and how they relate to PUA, and also to document my journey of PUAhood. .

Now, I'm not a beginner, and I'm an example of how learning about how to be better with women works, and I would say I'm about midway where I want to be. I started off an AFC, but I'm in the midway where I can get girls easily enough, but now I want to get the best girls.

When I first got into this (through Neil Strauss, like a lot of you) I had slept with 8 girls (which I understand isn't awful, but I was 22 yrs old and wanted to get better).

Now after a year of the game, I have slept with 22 women in total, the latest being a 46 year old milf (7/10); something I would have never achieved without the game.


I would say that getting better with women improves your life in all areas. It makes your more confident in general, which links to being better with women again, and so forth. I would say just to push yourself out of your comfort zone, because, if you do this enough, your comfort zone becomes bigger, so you are so much more confident in doing things that you may not have been before.

My advice is not directly women related or based on routines, but instead: be interesting (this happens by doing interesting things with your life), try new things, and most of all, be different. Wear different things, be confident in them, then people notice you, girls notice you. Because you're different.

Then its about being interesting with girls. Its not too hard, just listen to what they say, and, especially when your just starting, use the routines, the neg examples, the openers, because they work and they help you and help break the ice.

Adopt the mindset of 'whats the worst that could happen in each situation', and you realise its so worth going to talk to the girl.

Having said that, I still get nervous before talking to girls, the self-doubt, a few awkward moments, I am by no means anywhere a PUA guru or master, I have a lot to learn, and a lot more adventures ahead of me before I get to that stage.

But thats the most incredible thing about this PUA journey. You can be as good as you want to be. You have to have near zero natural talent (I was awful). If you push the boundaries, try new things, take chances, all in all make the most of your oppurtunities both with women and in life, you can be great at this!

And its all down to YOU.

No one will do it for you, you can read other peoples stories, successes, but at the end of the day you have to say 'hi' to that first girl, and thats where your journey starts!

I'm looking forward to sharing my future adventures with you guys, and I can't wait to read your successes too!

BassLad

Hey man whats up? Welcome! Sounds like you have your shit together and I'm looking forward to some good reads.

Also, your name, do you play bass or are into that sort of electronic music?

Hey slip n slide, yeah I play bass, hence the name!

so, another blog entry.

I have made a list of things to accomplish before the end of the month. Including dropping 3kg (7 pounds for you across the pond), and getting a day game number. I realised thats what I haven't conquered yet, daygame. My nightgame has improved immensely but it's daygame that needs to improve.

I will keep you all posted when I get some updates, and give a more detailed post as I am pushed for time right now!

In relation to my original post, I will try and update the blog now to give a heads up to where I am, and I intend to use this forum as a blog and as a writing outlet. I'm at 25 girls. I feel I have the tools for night game, its just using them.

But now, I want to start day game, as I feel this takes the most balls, and it also makes night game easier as there is a lot more AA in daygame in my opinion (yet I have seen/heard/felt that the results are much better).

To steal a phrase from daygame.com (i am not plugging them for that sake, I would simply recommend it as a good starting point for daygame) especially for a Brit like myself:

"daygame requires no entry fee, your already there, there are literally unlimited girls, and the best thing about it, there are no rivals. No one else is approaching during the day".

combine this with the fact that girls are more responsive during the day and you find a huge oppurtunity; and one I will document to you all, hopefully with my successes.

To fill you in on a nightgame escapade the other night, i think I got two numbers (not great really) but I felt on fire and had a great attitude throughout, and I think if i'd have wanted to, I could've got more.


But for now, I want to keep a blog of as much game info I can, from the little interactions to the bigger ones. I hope you enjoy reading.