Sorry if there’s a lack of detail but this happened on the 5th of January and I’ve only just found time to right up all my field/lay reports. I almost always use the same techniques and approaches so if you want any help I can give you some.
I had just got back to my Uni with my wingman on the train. It was about 10pm but we had been talking on the train for 3hours about each other’s game and new stuff we’d been watching so we decided to go straight out. After getting ready we went to the bar and got started. We ordered up two large shots of sambucca, a nerve settler.
We then headed up into the main area. I approached a Hb who was in a 4mixed set (2men, 2girls) after sharing extended eye contact, this is an IOI I always look for when entering an area. We small talked for a minute before I asked her what her ‘wildest aspirations’ were, she said she wanted to be a tv presenter and was planning on moving to London to make it happen. I joked with her about this for a while in my usual cocky funny manner while I continued with some light kino and eye contact. She asked me out for a cigarette and even though I don’t smoke I led her out to keep her company. Outside she told me I was fun, cheeky, nice, lots of compliments that I only responded to with cocky funny lines, such as ‘Yeah I am funny aren’t I’ or ‘well obviously you think I’m funny, I’m hilarious’. We had a running theme joke of her tv show and how I’d appear as a comedian on it. It was quiet where we were sitting so I decided to try and use a lie detector test game. This is where you ask them to think of 5 things one thing at a time but one has to be a lie. Just by watching their pattern of eye contact it’s easy to see which thought is a lie. This game was just another excuse as well for me to grab her by the hand, touch her hair and cheek, and look deep into her eyes. Of course I got it right and she was extremely impressed. But instead of being egotistical and explaining how I can do something so impressive I just kept looking into her eyes, then slowly looked at her lips and back into her eyes, my hand was still on the side of her face so I moved it round her head to ease her closer to me. We kissed passionately for a good while before she dragged me back inside, she introduced me to her 2 friends who I immediately dragged into our tv show joke assigning them roles of camera women and director. My wingman then came over and I playfully introduced them as their jobs id just given them, my friend was hitting it off with the camera women but my girl wanted to go somewhere quieter away from people she knew, she was all over me and I did think about going for the f-close but the night was still young and I was out getting some hours of practise in. I number closed with the ‘I’ve got to get back to my friends’ line and went back inside to see my mate.
He told me he was getting nowhere with his favoured forced IOI’s and he looked disheartened so we went to grab a beer to re-group. We began to talk to everyone around us trying to build some social proof. At that point I saw a girl who really caught my eye, she had long straight hair a gorgeous face and fit body an 8/9 any day of the week. I didn’t even hesitate I just walked straight over and asked her what she was drinking and whether it was any good, she replied, then I think I asked if I could try some, she said no playfully and covered her drink up. I then jokingly said something like I won’t put anything in it(something stupid like that), she smiled and called me an idiot playfully. I asked her what she dreamt about becoming and she said police officer, I immediately linked the previous joke about ‘date rape’ to being a police officer and how lucky I was she didn’t arrest me. She loved this and asked me to dance; my wingman was distracting her friend so they followed. I danced with her and progressed through some basic dance floor kino with eye contact before we started kissing. 15minutes passed before I pulled her aside and number closed her, I thought this was for the best after seeing my friend mess up with her friend. She wanted me to stay with her but I insisted I needed to go back to my friends but I would text her. (I later day 2'd and f-closed this girl, report to come.)
My friend was very disheartened at this point so I tried to get him started. I walked over to a 4set dancing in a seating area and opened the girl I talked to was really enjoying it but one alpha girl came in and tried to send me on my way. Using the limited knowledge I have about disarming bitch shields and alpha girls I told her that she was my favourite and I found her honesty refreshing, I wished them a good night and went back with my friend. He was ironically discussing IOI’s again with me while I was looking back over his shoulder at this girl, after about a minute one of the 4set had come and invited us back into the group. I immediately went back over to the girl I had originally opened and began some boring small talk questions but with a lot of non-verbal’s. I led her to some seating and isolated her from the other now quite drunk girls, sitting close to her with are legs touching side by side. She told me about her travels around Europe and how she was so much older then me, it was all very interesting but I didn’t really care about it at the time so I threw out a passive sexual frame control line, ‘if I wasn’t trying to fuck you I’d still want to hang out with you’. She took this well so I smiled and did the eye contact check between her lips and eyes before kissing her passionately. After a while I decided to number close and get out before her loud friends came back.
I could now see my friend gaming a big set of girls like a 5 or 6set. This made me smile so I went back to the bar to grab another beer, more as something to hold then anything. There I saw a blonde girl looking at me, when I held the eye contact she looked away so obviously I went over and opened her. I used the ‘drug dealer’ opener and it got a laugh and she even dragged her friend into it. But at this point my mind went blank and I started asking boring interview questions like the AFC I actually am. I made a joke about asking her cliqued questions that she’d heard a million times before and this really helped. She then loved all the questions and I was able to calm down and turn it around by using statements instead, but still connecting on her responses. My friend came over to distract her friend; turns out they had talked earlier. I then got the number close and went for a cheeky kiss close as I left but she turned it into a kiss on the cheek...
Soon after this we grabbed some water and a burger and walked home text gaming all the numbers I’d gathered on the way.
http://flyafc.blogspot.com/
CHAT