Because of my past, I've been always trying to be nice to girls and give them a lot of attention and let them decide when it's "the bed time".

Life has showed me something else and I accidently was told about the book called "The game" and that I should read it.

So I did (first 80 pages) and BOOM I got hooked up. Now I want to see how this may flip my life, whatever it takes.

I am not familiar with a lot of terminolage yet but I did go out in the field and tried looking at everything I knew in a different way.

Let the journey begin

Friday, night club, around midnight:

It’s snowing, it’s cold, party people are squeezing in the warm club.

I am handing my coat to a smiley girl and start walking towards the dance floor. As I am walking past the “chill” room towards the “dancing” room, I spot a nice blonde (don’t know the scale or terms yet so I’ll call her blonde) walking in the opposite direction so towards me. I keep my eyes on her waiting until she notices it, as soon as she notices me I smile to her, turn slightly and start walking towards her and making sure I keep my eye contact with her. As we almost head to head she smiles and says “hi” (IOI) but doesn’t stop. Now out of my poor skills, I keep on walking too.

1) I am thinking I should have done “kino” (if I remember it correctly), basically grab her softly by the hip, smile and say something like “find me on the dance floor” but in a better way (I still have a lot to learn) so if she comes back she will be looking for me. What do you guys think?

Welcome to the Game!

Okay, so yes, you should have stopped her, but not by grabbing her hip. You don't want to show interest before she does. What happened the rest of the night? There were surely more girls in the club, right?

Finish reading the game, then get either "Magic Bullets" by lovesystems or the Mystery Method book. Or go to bristollair.com. You have ALOT of learning to do. Feel free to PM me any questions you have. Good luck, welcome again, and happy hunting!

Glade

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My mPUA pickup journal: mpua-glades-log-of-pick-up-and-life-vt99032.html

The night goes on,

I grab a drink walk up to the second floor so I can see the whole dance floor.

I spot a 3-set and a 5-set (all girls) so I am going to them. I come very close to the 3-set but don’t walk in and start a conversation (don’t really know what to say in a loud night club without girls noticing me first) instead I start dancing near the set and brush my eyes at the target. She notices me and I walk towards her, she sees it and quickly turns away. When I approached her, she looks at me and smiles. The next thing is her friend grabs me at points at a wiggly dude, stating that he’s her boyfriend. I am asking her if she is having fun and turn around and walk to the 5-set.

Again I am dancing trying to find any attention from any of the 5. Once I get that I walk in and say (took that from the forum) “are you girls shy? I ve been dancing for 5 minutes and you haven’t said hi”. No reaction, I might have been too quiet for this noisy room.

2) What do you suggest for an opener in this kind of environment?

I turn around and see a brunet looking at me but dancing with another dude so I smile, then turn and move to a different spot.

In a few moments, the blonde that I met in the beginning comes up to me and says hi, she looks like a party girl one of those that know what they’re doing not just “getting drunk and see what happens next” so we start right off strong, dancing in close contact. Her friend comes over and she introduces me to her, I shake her hand and say my name with a strong accent. Her face shows a lot of interest and she quickly turns to the blond to tell her that I am a foreigner. I smile to the blond but turn to her friend and start dancing with her for 15-20 secs – teasing the blond. Then I turn around and dance with the blonde. She is asking me how long I’ve been in the country, I tell her 27 hours so she starts laughing and says welcome. The next sentence was quite unexpected, she goes “well I bet you haven’t kissed a ‘this country’ girl yet” and leans towards me.

3) Help me out here. My thoughts: I should have said something like “I have a tough decision to make, who is going to be the lucky one” and start looking around, then continue playing with her. What do you say?

Uhhh...you kiss her! But break off the kiss before she does and say "Are all ____ girls that greedy? That's all you get!" Then keep dancing with both of them. Then you can re approach the 5 set if you want because they all saw you kiss a cute girl and dancing with both (social proof).

Or kiss them both. Kiss the first one and then be like "I want a second opinion!" And just go for it with the friend. If you get blown out, just maintain your frame and keep working the blonde.

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My mPUA pickup journal: mpua-glades-log-of-pick-up-and-life-vt99032.html

January 30, 2012:

The night can be described with the harrowing words by the popular singer of 21st century:

"Johnny, la gente esta muy loca"

After reading some literature on PU, I've decided to field test it.

Monday night (sounds sketchy), I am getting in a club. The club looks abandoned. While I was getting cash and paying the entrance fee some magic happened, 2 girls have appeared at the bar.

I walk to the bar, order a drink and "suddenly" notice the girls. After a 2 min attempt to start any sort of conversation, I've given up - the girls didn't speak a word of English. Thinking it'd be cool to speak other languages, I noticed a 4-set (all girls) at a table. They all have shots in their hands so I come up and say "hey, looks like the party is over here", "what are we celebrating?". An HB9 smiles and starts telling me that it's her day off and she works at the club. After 4-5 minutes of talking the conversation stales, I've been ignoring her friends... I excuse myself and go to another bar. Open a 2-set of girls, fail a few minutes after, still a lot of work needs to be done on my "Attraction" phase.

Left hanging at the bar by myself, I can feel that the gravity has become 5 times stronger and it's tough to keep my shoulders loose and my pace nice and slow. Fighting against the nature, I make a circle and approach a 3-set at the table.

The conversation starts off promising, they look enthusiastic and I have their attention. Slowly, the gravity weakens and my shoulders stretch out towards the sun. After 20-30 minutes of talking, I am past the Attraction phase and finally, first time since I started reading PU material, I am in the Comfort phase. The girls laugh at my jokes, one starts touching me and tells me that I am sexy (u-la-la, I am in).

Side note: She also said: "look at my friend isn't she beautiful, her boyfriend is far on the other side of the country. You can... you know what I mean." What the hell is that for?. She thinks she isn't good enough for me?

Another 5 minutes past, I decide something has to be changed so it doesn't stale. I take the girls up to the dance floor, we start dancing. They're laughing and enjoy dancing with me. I spin 2 of them a few times and now they're all over me. Looks like I am doing sports tonight!

But wait, what do I do next?

I have this one girl that is into me big time, her friends seem to like me. How do I isolate now when we´re all dancing together. My brain does not function any more, I keep dancing and start looking around, slowly my smooth movies and strong body language fade away and I become looking like a gorilla thinking how to get the banana. Girls notice that they dance for another 10 minutes and tell me that they have to go soon.

After their speech, the harrowing words bounce off every wall in the club:

"Johnny, la gente esta muy loca"

And we all continue with the singer - what the fuck.

I am thinking that was close...

The girl's face shows: why didn't you take me somewhere bud, it's too late now...

Her friends give me a hug and look at me like : we thought more about you...

Now that they left, I can hardly keep my frame. I was so close... Thoughts on what I should have done differently bombard my head, I have to get out.

4-5 smiles and I am on my way back to the hotel... I am hungry for knowledge.