so i'll share a story with you guys that i feel a bit guilty about.

i came to the French Alpes with my family for the week to go skiing/snowboarding. I'm staying at a Club Med resort. now this is an annual trip for us, but we mix it up every year and go to a different spot/country in the Alpes and i've been pretty successful picking up a random girl for my stay, usually, it's another guest... i've gamed an italian girl, an english girl, and one french girl on past trips here (the french one was crazy and ended up trying to physically harass me halfway through the trip for reasons unknown!) but anyway, on with this weeks adventure!


there was a lack of english speaking girls here this time around. i knew this would present a problem because i don't speak any french (even posted a thread about this in the Mid-Game forum) so my options were limited to body language and kino to get my point across or take the daring route and mack it to staff. Now, tuesday night i was getting visibly frustrated so my mom made friends with the receptionist (a 19yo HB6.5 who spoke 5 languages) i HATE setups but my mom insisted i meet her. so i came up and we started talking while she was behind the desk. we hit it off, she turned out to be a very interesting and intelligent girl but i wasn't necessarily looking for a sweetheart just the hottest one night stand i could find. i decided to Facebook Close her and let her get back to work while i hit the resort bar. She told me she wanted to show me the local nightclub but couldn't tonight because she had work early in the morning so told me to meet her at the bar Wednesday night so we can go together.

at about 9pm i noticed a very VERY cute girl, we'll say, an HB9 dancing alone at the resort bar so i approached. she spoke very little english and didn't show much interest in me seeing as how we couldn't communicate. later i found out she too worked for Club Med and she invited me out to the local nightclub that night to party with her and some other staff members. 1am rolls around and she got off so we met up at the front with a few other Club Med staff (most of which were very alpha and good looking dudes so i felt a little threatened since i was way outside of my comfort zone with charming french guys trying to pick up a girl i couldn't talk to)

anyway, we're at the club and me and this girl dance for a bit than split up while she hangs out with friends and leaves me wandering this club in a country where i didn't speak the language. through out the night we share a few cigarettes and try to understand each others conversations but it wasn't going anywhere. at 4am we leave, nothing happens, and i go straight to my room and go to sleep.


NOW i wake up wednesday and spend the day riding (missing the morning sessions due to an unbelievable hangover from cheap, open bar, house liquor.

after dinnertime i meet up with the HB6.5 from the beginning of the story and we head to the bar for a few drinks and conversation. i played a big cocky/funny routine and had her laughing and kino-ing me by touching my leg. at 1am we meet up with a few more Club Med people and take the bus for the nightclub again. Lo and Behold the HB9 comes with us. i can tell she's intrigued by the fact that i am now taking out one of her co-workers.

this is where it gets interesting....

we're at the club and i'm dancing and spending a lot of time with the HB6.5 we're laughing, having a good time, then she sees some of her local friends and goes to say hello. at this exact moment, the HB9 approaches me and invites me to go have a smoke with her. in the smokers lounge she is showing a LOT of interest. she gets really close to me and she's touching her hair and laughing and just throwing a lot of IOI's my way. she then grabs my hand and eagerly brings me to the dance floor where she starts grinding on me so good i almost blow a load right there. i see the HB6.5 looking over her shoulder occasionally at us but not looking to upset as she talks to her co-workers and friends. 3am rolls around and the HB9 takes me outside to wait for the bus. we took it alone back up the resort and we start making out in the bus. i brought her to my room where we fucked for another hour and a half or so until we decided it was time to pass out.

we cuddled a bit and i fell asleep. i woke up with a napkin on my nightstand and "Merci" written with a heart and her name (which i never actually knew beforehand haha)

now it's thursday and i plan to go to the club tonight again since i wan't to cram in as much fun as possible before i leave on saturday. i'm not really too sure how to approach the situation with either of the two girls because i KNOW i will see them at some point today. (hopefully the HB6.5 will be working early tomorrow and won't be able to come out) should i go for round 2 with the HB9? man up and apologize to HB6.5? hmm....

i figured i SHOULD have just been with the HB6.5 like a gentleman, but on the other hand, the chances of me seeing either of these two girls is EXTREMELY unlikely so i'd rather have fucked the trophy girl than the smart and charming girl next door. am i right?

Kudos, man! I am impressed. I think you played it correctly. The HB6.5 didn't have too much invested in you. 2 encounters? You, yourself knew what you wanted and she wasn't it. I'm surprised you feel so bad. Who's to say that you hurt her feelings? Perhaps she parlays with all the sexy international guests? Plus, you certainly didn't do anything negative to her, you are a PUA and clearly not of the AFC variety.

Unless I'm missing something here?

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haha thanks guys.

as i mentioned in my intro thread i kind of lost my mojo lately (i seem to do a lot better in fresh environments... especially in different countries since i guess i'm european and just feel at home here)

actually, i just bumped in to HB6.5 outside and we shared a cigarette and had an awkward conversation about last night being fun and doing it again tonight and blah blah blah she seemed less interested to talk to me this time around.


i don't know. i'm a bit of a softie on the inside but normally don't project it in my attitude anymore (thank you PUA community) so i do feel like i upset her a bit.

well, anyway, off to go snowboard some more and enjoy the last beautiful day here before it gets cloudy and snowy tomorrow!

Au Revoiur!

update. ran into HB6.5 again and she invited me to an invite-only Club Med staff dinner tonight. VIP status.


maybe it's not too late to F Close her too? that'd be pretty boss.

yeah why not. i keep picturing a table of coworkers talking amongst themselves in french all night and me being the strange american guy trying to carry on an "easy" conversation with those around me.

i feel like i'm going to be put in a very beta situation. i could try using some humor and wit but i feel like it might go over their heads if their english isn't great. kind of hard to be the life of the party when you're the outcast, but maybe i'll share some stories about traveling and New York and see if i can win the crowd over with interest.

plan b, sit there and focus all my attention on HB6.5 at the risk of looking needy and socially inept. at least i know she can speak english very well and actually have a decent conversation with me. i'm willing to bet the HB9 will be there too.

in all honesty, i'm only 50% attracted to HB6.5 and basically only for her personality and the ease of our conversations. like, no one i would ever game back home or even if my mom hadn't introduced us for that matter. maybe i could use her again to get with HB9 again but if i do it twice i'd really feel shitty about it haha


during the convo outside when i was sharing a cigarette with her:

Me - So are you going back to the nightclub tonight?

Her - I don't know, i'm kind of tired and i still have to work all day so probably not.

Me - ah i see. what's it like working on vacation? *smile*

Her - *laugh* i wish it was vacation. all work, no play.

Me - well, i'm going to hit the slopes some more while the sun's still out, let me know if you change your mind.

Her - you know, on second thought i think i might come to the night club tonight!

Me - Great, then i'll meet you at the bar at 1!




i lead her on. it's kind of the natural "player" in me. but who knows, maybe a little dancing and a few drinks and the HB6.5 will become an HB8. i'll post more later!

went out to dinner with HB6.5

it was a fun night. i learned about her life in Germany (didn't actually know she was German, the girl's so international it's hard to tell where she's from!) blah blah blah chit chat, small kino, she had to get back to work for a few more hours and told me she wanted to go out clubbing tonight with me.

guys, I AM EXHAUSTED. i know this seems like a very easy F Close (and it probably is) but it's 11pm right now, we don't leave for the club til 1am and then we get back at 4am, so i could spend another hour or two fooling around with her.


i'm already falling asleep. it's almost not worth it. she's got the day off tomorrow. i'll just work some day game and get me some afternoon delight.

i hope it doesn't seem like i'm standing her up. i have no way of contacting her to tell her i'm not going to make it. oh well. i already got some hanky panky from a much better looking girl (who did a great belly dance today at the resort's nightly show!) i can live with that.


honestly the only reason i even wanted to go to the club tonight was to run into HB9 again haha

well, that's it for now. tomorrow is my last full day here before having to pack and head back to Crapmerica. i'll post if anything interesting happens.

UPDATE: Day... 3? 4? Screw it, lost count.


Anyway, as I mentioned last night, I flaked on the HB6.5 on our little "club date."

I was too tired and fuck it, it's my vacation I do what I want.

So I ran into the HB9 at lunch today. Just a simple "Hey, How Are you " type deal. Nothing special.

10 Minutes ago I went to the bar to order myself a drink. The bar tender gets excited to see me and starts grilling me about my name/age/nationality/whatever.... I was curious as to why, being that she was a 30yo+ herself.

Get this...

There's a group of 4 Brazilian girls ages 18-21 that have been looking for me. They told her they saw me the other night and really wanted to find me to "chat." The bartender tells me I'm very lucky and that they're all very cute. She tells me to be at the bar around 8pm tonight so I can meet them.

I swear I have not had this much success with girls since high school. it's like all of a sudden everyone is fighting over me despite the fact that I'm in FRANCE surrounded by male model looking guys.

I think honestly I owe it all to more research on PUA and re-reading The Game on my flight here for that extra kick of last minute confidence.

I'll report back when I meet with these girls!

- Stylite