| Hi guys,
First post in here really. Been reading up on Tyler Durden, Mystery, Savoy, DeAngelo and others for a while. I've enjoyed the books/videos and have been doing some light sarging for a while.
Background to me - I'm 20, medium build (80kgs), blonde hair, young face. Not the best looking guy, but not the worst either.
Went to two bars in Aus.
Bar #1:
Walked in, immediately opened set group of guys with bisexual gf opener. Got them chatting and laughing and my wing did a good job at bringing them in. Was really cool.
This bar is big, btw, two dancefloors and two outside areas all in a sandstone terrace setting.
Rolled from there to inside, grabbed a water and hi-fived the bartender (incidentally she gave me a free drink later in the night). Opened another set, got some kino and laughs going. Mix of HB6-7s (4 of them). DHV'd through stories about my life (happy to share some framework in PMs).
From there, jumped from that set to a set near my wing, got them laughing. 3 HB7s and 2 guys made it easy, guys in particular dug the sexual material. By then I had some good frame control going and was feeling pretty good.
My wing had opened an HB9 and an HB10 so I moved in to assist. Ended up DHVing too hard and AMOGing him by accident (this was a real hazard that night). Got them smiling, neg'd twice, then bailed to another set once they were warmed up.
Go inside to booth and open a set with the 'creepy guy' opener, which I've found is blowing open sets left and right that are sitting down. Goes like this 'hey guys, I just have a minute here, but if I hit on you really creepily, can I have them?'. 2 set HB8s invite me to sit down with them, so I run a more scripted set of DHVs (best friend, ESP, story, then a name guessing trick I developed myself). Went well, they left but one left me a number.
Back outside my wing has re-engaged the HB9 and HB10. They ask where I am, and note that I seem to be chatting to everyone (this is social proof at work, something that I believe is crucial to winning over a very attractive woman). I skirt around and keep engaging other sets.
I then pull my mate away to leave in sight of the HB10.
Bar #2:
Went in, opened a set with creepy guy opener. Bar was a little loud. Barely got it out, they let me sit down but I blew out pretty hard - leaning in/body language issues really hurt me.
Bar was too loud so I left.
Bar #1:
Came back in, opened up a guy and HB6. Easy social proof, they brought me back to their group where I told some funny stories and just ran 'natural' game. Then proceeded to move outside, where I opened a large set of guys near my HB10 set. Made the guys laugh, enjoyed their company (cool load of dudes).
Then headed back to the set, neg'd them about sitting around for ages. They'd blown off another group of guys just before. Offered to wing the single girl after finding one of them had a bf, and then started DHVing again in story mode. Ran ESP, then showed her vids from a story whilst initiating kino. Ran the cube then talked about her life, she is at my Uni as well. She offered to go get coffee (this is the HB10) and said I really knew how to work a room. I laughed it off and accepted, grabbing her phone number, then left.
Lessons to learn:
- Kino needs work, as well as late game escalation. Opened a lot of sets without a great deal of huge sexual escalation.
- Varying frame needs work as well, having a fluid frame shaped to my reality needs some work.
- Social proof works and is very effective. Certainly sarging guys helped with the HB10s for sure.
- Transitioning could be a little better, as could a few of my early DHV gambits. Was over reliant on story telling.
All in all, a good night.
--- Sublimed _________________ AFC turning into a PUA.
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