I've hooked up with plenty of girls at my frat in college, but that doesn't really involve game and until last week I'd never hooked up with a girl after a date, or even been on many dates, so this was an incredible experience and confidence booster for me.

There's a girl I've had a crush on for YEARS...back when I was much more of an AFC she dated my old friend, and although we were always flirty, I never made any progress.

We've stayed in touch on and off for the past few years; we always found eachother good to speak with. Now that I'm on break I texted her and said we should hang out some time that week. She agreed but her response was unenthusiastic so I just ignored her after and forgot about it. A week later on Sunday I get a text saying we should grab lunch - I apologized for forgetting and agreed to meet her the next day. While at lunch, I noticed she had really gone all out with the makeup, much more than a girl usually would have for lunch, and thought I might actually have a chance. She said she had to be home, but told me should would be willing to meet up or get dinner later in the week.

That Wednesday I told her I booked a reservation at a BYOB sushi place and that I'd see her the next night. I bought two six packs of nice beer and we had a really good time. By the end our legs were touching, there was lots of eye contact, I even held her hand across the table for a bit. We were fairly drunk and the whole place probably knew we were going to hook up after.

We split teh bill and on the way out to the car I put my arm around her, telling her she isn't walking straight. By the time we get to the parking lot we were making out, and I eventually was feelin her up against the car. She kept saying it was too risky of a place for that, but I kept insisting and we had a great time there. Eventually we transferred back to my parents house where my sister was home. We couldn't keep ourselves off of eachother and ended up fondling and making out even more all over my house and yard while avoiding my sister. She wouldn't let me finger her but let me touch everywhere else and rub her over the panties.

She has strict parents and kept getting angry texts from them so we finally had to call it a night - I hook up with her some more when she gets to her house and say goodbye.

The next few days she thinks of excuses why she can't hang out - maybe they are genuine...IDK. (I told her to come to a family party that I had to attend (60+ people) - not as a date but just for fun, but she said no and left for school the next day.

Now the curious thing is she sent a text somewhere through our conversation saying
"Does that mean we're dating now?? Hahaha ok jk. I wanted to make sure you don't talk or have kept in touch with me because you wanted last night to happen."

I basically said "if we lived near eachother I'd consider it but as of now we're not dating lol. I'd hook up with you again and take you out again but were not a couple haha"

"haha no ugh that's not what I meant...it's more important that we're friends. I don't want anything to get complicated. But I thought I'd make you sweat asking you that haha. But that was a joke."

I interpret this as a good sign - she wants to make sure I'm not clingy/looking for a serious relationship. Is that right? Regardless, I feel like I learned quite a bit and had a great success of a night - much better than random frat party hookups, even if we didn't bang yet.

I also gave her some shit texting about her being a sloppy kisser, and told her to practice a bit while she's at school - just not too much.

Nice work man. Be careful about the heavy making out and feeling her up in the parking lot. You want hooking up to feel like a journey together, not like you're rushing. Also, I didn't really see a question there. Keep your text game up by hitting her up every few days and start pumping buying temperature right before you see her again. Think texts like "You're a great kisser, but don't expect that everytime." As the meet date gets closer...well. You've already shown interest, you can take it further....when you set up another meeting and you're a couple days out start saying shit like "I can't wait to see you again."

But once again GREAT WORK!
Glade

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Thanks man I really appreciate it! It was definitely one of my most satisfactory hook ups ever even if we didn't go too far.

I suppose my question is stemmed from the "I don't want it to get complicated part" - this cast an ounce of doubt in my mind that she doesn't want to hook up again, especially because her texts after that night weren't incredibly enthusiastic, so was wondering what your thoughts were on that little nugget. I'm hoping my interpretation was correct in thinking that her intent was to make ensure I wasn't too clingy. Does this seem reasonable?

I won't see her again for a few months, as I go to school in the middle of New Hampshire and she goes to school in Washington DC. (We live in Jersey.) Any thoughts on how frequently to text/the type of things to say until I see her Spring Break?

Also, even though it was probably a really stupid idea, we were in the parking lot for about 15 minutes and neither of us cared too much (at least she didn't seem to).