How many times have you asked the lady: “How many guys have you slept with?” And how many times the answer was between 4 and 6? Let me tell you 90%.

How many times have you asked her: “Why didn’t you answer my phone yesterday?” And got some stupid answer like “I had to help my granny with dinner…” or “I left the phone in the other room…”

Should you believe them? Never!

Someone could say they are all “lying bitches”, but since majority of them is doing it, I prefer to call it “female language”. All you have to do is to learn to talk their language and you will win the game.

I also want to state I use a little different tactics then the rest of the forum. I am using bars and night clubs to build my female friend base. Then I use Facebook or live to meet their friends. It is slow technique, but, in my environment, the only way to score 9s and 10s.

So let me share what I learned for last couple of years that improved my closing ratio:

1. You ask her for a coffee and she says “NO”
Most probably you were moving too fast, you didn’t even bother to build attraction.
Best course of action: forget about her and go on, don’t repeat mistake you made.

2. You ask her for a coffee and she starts with some stupid excuses like she is busy for next couple of days, not in town for weekend, blah, blah, blah…
Most probably she has boyfriend and not interested in you.
Best course of action: wait for at least 3 months then try to catch up with her again. If she doesn’t answer wait another 3 months than try again. Sometimes it takes couple of months, sometimes one or two years, but at the end YOU WIN. If you go for 9s and 10s you will get this response >90% of the time, so you better start using some sort of CRM immediately (I use ZOHO, it’s free for single user).

3. You ask her for a coffee, she starts with excuses and then she accepts after your tenth attempt
This is very bad position for you, because you don’t know the real problem. It could be you didn’t reach desired attraction level or she has a boyfriend. My tactics in this situation is to cancel date. Think of some valid reason. Then start building attraction through SMS or Facebook, DO NOT CALL. If she doesn’t respond see nr. 1, if she does, don’t forget to qualify and then call her out again.

4. You ask her for a coffee and she tells you she has boyfriend
Most probably she is interested in you, but this is ladies way of telling you to go slow. WOW, what a paradox!
Best course of action: “you’re right, we shouldn’t do it”. That will put her on tilt and add some extra passion. DO NOT, by any means, try to build up attraction or comfort! Wait 1 day and then send her message you want to meet her. Do not give any explanations or excuses to your action, just pure “Let’s meet”. Avoid weekends and evenings, because that’s when she is with her boyfriend. If she rejects you, ask her when she is available. If she again says she has boyfriend, repeat action, wait one day and ask her out again. Just don’t be shy. When you meet her, you have to play by her rules. Do not force anything and just let her lead to the point when you are alone in some intimate environment. Then attack with all the passion you have. If you go for 9s and 10s 70% of girls will be in a relationship, so get ready for that.

5. She doesn’t answer your call
Most probably she has boyfriend and not interested in you, but in some rear occasions she is testing your good intentions. She wants to know if you’re looking for relationship or one night stand.
Best course of action: NEVER call again immediately after! That is DLV. Wait for at least one day and then call her again. Then wait one more day and call her again. Guys have tendency to think she didn’t hear the phone or something like that, but believe me, that is never ever the case. They actually take mobiles under shower. They are always aware of your call, so DON’T ever send any kind of message or try to catch up on Facebook, you will turn out being a looser and miss your chance to try again in 3 months.

6. You spent entire evening chatting with her, made some physical progression everything was looking fine, but you call her next day and she doesn’t answer your calls (this is exception to 5)
Most probably you built too much attraction and forgot about qualification. Now she knows you’re after sex and not her. This is how I lost majority of girls I could have…
Best course of action: send her flowers. If you can’t get her address try sending some cute MMS or picture into her Facebook mailbox. Next time don’t drink so much and don’t forget about qualification. If she has boyfriend, flowers will make a mess… Well, it's her problem she didn’t tell you about it.

7. You spent the night together, kissing, maybe sex. Next she is avoiding you for a couple of days, then you have coffee and she tells you she doesn’t feel anything for you or that there is someone else
Most probably you built high attraction and forgot about qualification. She thinks you are out of her league and you will hurt her.
Best course of action: move away because you will hurt her.

I am from Croatia (small country in southern Europe), so please excuse my bad English. Also, I am very eager to hear your opinion on the subject, so please share your experiences.