okey, so to begin I'm gonna tell you I'm Polish
I am not well experienced yet, couse I started this whole PUA thing about 2 months ago, I read different kinds of articules, books and stuff like this. I decided not only change the way how I deal with women, but also about many other things.
From the very beginning I my development was based on what one of the Polish coaches have created, his approach is mainly focused on honesty, i his theory all the Mystery's methods, Ross Jeffries methods are not nessesery. But I thought to myself why not enhance my horizons, that's the reason I found this forum, after read a certain number of topics here I realised it is the best forum I know and most importantly the users here are active in compare to Polish one.
Let's get to the point I decided to take the action, not wait until I finish all the materials - it would take a years.
Well, one night after work I went out to a Pub, just to chill, haven't expected any action, but something happened. I was drinking a beer and training gaining a social proof, talking to people around me and bartender, that night I met about 10 different people, while all this I have notised a girl sitting alone, I found her attractive to me and most importantly she was evidently sending an IOI to me, after a couple of minutes of sharing intensive eye contact I made it happen to approach her, I built an atrraction mostly by inverbal manners, while we were talking about movies, spontanious adventures like hitchhiking or even some extreme thing like bungee, now when I think about this our talk was to much of bullshit things, nevertheless after some period of time we went to have deal, the prize was the winner can choose an award, she failed so we kissed, well played I think, but then I had to go to the men's room, when I was back some other guy was hitting on her, I used a method mentioned in The Game - Neil Strauss, and didn't care about, I paid less attention to her and soon enough she got back to me, we spent our time talking and kissing and then finally we went to talk about sexual desires, she admitted me that She is Bi, and she's willing to make out with her girl-friend they are just buddies not in a relation, we shared our fantasies and then I screw up I decided to go enough direct to let her know I want to get laid with her, she freaked away and soon enough gone somewhere under cheap reason.
I shared this story upon another (polish) PUA forum, I have heard a few opinions, but it is not enough, I want you guy to tell me what went wrong in your reasoning?
Any kind of advise will be appreciated.
BTW, English is my second language so if I comitted any mistakes, sorry
CHAT