GOAL- Be able to ask a girl out without feeling shy.

Just started this program today.

Day1---

Asked 8 people the time. Didnot approach 3 girls and a man because i thought they were cool.

note-
SOme stupid self beliefs--

1-I am not attractive enough.
how do i know this?--because i had asked my high schol crush out and she rejected me.
Though whenever i tried to talk to girls i have made good progress.
How is this affecting me?--i cant get out and be really comfortable with a girl.

[quote="avad"]
1-I am not attractive enough.
how do i know this?--because i had asked my high schol crush out and she rejected me.[/quote]
So if 1 girl reject you that is the proof of you being but ugly ? And what happens if 1 girl thinks you are cute ? Does that make you the hottest guy on earth ? Dude, try to be a bit more realistic. Some girls are gonna like you, some girls not. You can't be everyone's type. Before you conclude you are not handsome enough, first try to get 1000 rejections and 0 dates. If you manage this, then you can tell for sure you are not attractive enough .

Thanks dude.



I am scred a bit to talk to girls. I know i am not ugly. but i just cannot muster courage to ask a girl out.I feel insecure in asking a girl out . hopefully will be able to change that.

what's with the without feeling shy part?

Being shy, nervous etc etc is a part of the game!

It'd be good to define 'asking a girl out' too. Do you mean approach a girl COLD and get her number. Girls in your social circle? Ask her out or get laid? Get laid or get a girlfriend?

It's best to describe EXACTLY what you want, so even if no one else understands it you have at least a detailed idea in your head of what you want.

Well coming to think of it, never had a social circle in which girls were a part.
It just didnt happen. a girl had asked me out when i was 15 years old but my parents came to know and thrashed me for being "evil" and "a loose charactered person". went on a couple of dates after that with other girls.

Then won a bet in getting a girls ph number(hb7) in 3 days with one of my friend.


what i really want is a stedy girl and then see where things go from there.

DAY 2---

so today i had to ask time with my watch on and/or cell phone in hand. well, to be honest i mostly carry my cell phone in hand so today was not that different from yesterday. Never was a watch person so had to search in my room and atlast found a coat watch...a very old one. attached it to my jeans.asked gilrs time for 25-30 mins. a couple of them were hot.

Day3--

So today i was supposed to ask couples(the girl) the time.

roamed the streets for 1 hours but just couldnt find a couple, sio i asked 2 or more group of girls the time.

asked about6-7 groups. and 3-4 single girls.

last couple of girls i asked the following hapened--

one girl started looking at her mobile to tell me time, while the other told her in a low voice that i was having a ell phone in my hand and why was i asking the time...And these were hb3 chicks. why the attitude? hell with it.

And another thig i noticed today---

There is a girl who lives where our group hangs out. My friend always told me that she looked at me but i never believed him. Today we visited the place after 15 days. I was driving my bike and along the turn this girl was walking and she at first just glancd at us and then we passed her. After that, i dunno why i just looked back at her and to my surprise she had also turned nd was looking at us.

day 4 was suposed to ask girls for directions,,,asked one set(3 girls) but left cause oof some work.

Continued to day5
asked 3 sets of girls the address and chatted a bit about directions with one group.