Hi I'll keep this short.... ish Went out tonight with friends, made out with friend of a friend after dancing close to her. Continued to hang with her for different points in the night and didn't want to seem clingy so went with friends often leaving her with her mates. Sooner or later we're dancing next to each other again after chating for a bit, another dude dances close to her and makes out with her right next to me (I tried putting an arm aroudn her demonstrating I was there... she ignored it, no one noticed but honestly I found it embarasing).

Honestly the her getting with someone else thing wouldn't have been annoying if it weren't for the fact I had the chance to dance with others that night who I could have potentially done more with (or at least number closed).

What I'd like to know is whether I was ignoring her too much? I may not have gone home alone tonight if I'd wised up to what I was doing wrong.

Ta

R&B

this is a dilemma , ignore her and hope that raises attraction, or cling on to her and hope she pays exclusive attention to you without being unattractive. Ive tried both and come to the conclusion that I cant tell, I've used both successfully and failed at both.

I always try to isolate if I make-out in public which I do less and less for reasons I wont explain here.

I thought you saying:
Was silly. I would be furious, which is why I always now isolate after a make out so I don't get in a situation in which I anger myself and ruin my night. I always hear a few zen like phoney PUA guys here saying shit like that shouldn't bug you, but any man who isn't getting laid every night and has a pair, is gonna get pissed off at this point.

Ill be honest, if a girl did that in front of me id probably dress her down and then leave, with my night ruined. I might even start a fight with the guy if he was disrespecting me. But I guess i'm a big baby, but at least i'm honest.