Met a 30 yr old girl at a winer mixer. Ran decent game. Number closed. Text game led to a first date. First date she shows up an hour late with a friend. Ran good game (attraction/comfort) after isolating her from her friend and friends bf. Couldn't kiss her...said that she needed to get to know me better. Got a second date with her at my place for dinner and wine (told her to bring wine and dessert). After hanging out a bit, she would not kiss but then she sprung this (everybody hold on to your seat) on me: "I think we should have sex to see if there's any chemistry." Whoa!. So we ended up doing the deed. Thought i fucked her well. Her past sex history: raped when she was 17, involved in group sex when she was in college, and her last bf of 5 yrs could only have sex with her while watching porn. Since that second date, she's flaked twice with the last being at the very last minute with a text: "Sorry...just got off work...long story...I think i'm gonna take it easy tonight." So any advice out there to turn this around into a MLTR or FB situation?