Right I have posted my "so far already in" my post "mid game stumble?"
Up to date yesterday she told me she is shy and gets a lot of guys hitting on her and doesnt know the wierdos, before I asked her out for a coffee we were comfortable talking and getting on we but I think from what she said about getting hit on etc and the fact that I wanted to get her away from work (so there was no work influence etc ie easier to be comfortable) that I may have spooked her a little, I am glad I cleared things a bit with her yesterday and now know she is shy (surprising for an hb8.5) any tips guys now on how to proceed showing I am not one of the other wierdos but still moving things along? should I ask for a coffee at her work or work on comfort more? Surely coffee isnt to pushy???