Whats up! this is my first field report, I expect to receive TONS of critics
We were 4 dudes celebrating a friend´s bachelor party, we went to a club and were waiting for a table, so I decided to ask for 4 beers to the bartender, and by then my friends dissappeared leaving me with 4 half litter beers and nowwhere to go, as tried to reach them by phone, there were two girls (a 6 and an
between me and the beers and the noticed I was having a hard time trying trying to reach them because I couldnt hold the 4 beers. So one of them asked me what I was doing with those things, I told her about the party and invited them to our table, so we looked for my friends and they were already sat, looking for me, so we left the beers at the table and and walked where the other girl was.
In the way she told me that her friend had finished a relationship and was very sad, when we got to her, she didnt want to leave her seat, so I sat next to her and the other girl went back with my friends. As we started to speak (knowing ourselves) I told her that I was from Mexico and that my hebrew sucked, and that my school was in another city so my day was a mess due to that, so she started to smile, she told where she worked and a little bit of her background.
I asked what she was drinking and I invited her a drink, then after a while she told me "You are a really nice guy, I dont think you have done any crazy stuff" and I replied: "I´m crazy as it gets!" she asked me about what crazy things I did, and -- to tell the truth I was damn nervous (thats my main issue)-- so I told her that I had given CPR with all the electrical discharge and saved a couple of lives. Even thou I was very nervous, I decided to put my hand in her back and she didnt reject me, then I said: "Lets toast, for us" and we toasted
After that some of her wine fell to her skirt and I grabbed a napkin to clean her and she said "wait wait, you´re not touching me" and I quickly replied: "Noooo you wish that to happen, im just throwing you the napkins, you arent that lucky" and she burst into a laugh, then she told me that she had broken with her bf and was very sad, and she proposed a toast, her words were in hebrew, but then she translated like this: "For life, for alcohol and for sex"
We drank but then I didnt know what to say, then she asked for her friend because she was with my friends, and after not finding her, she didnt want to be next to me anymore and found another friend and thats the sad story of the club.
Later on I got somewhat drunk and my friends got two chicks and we went to a burger place next to the club, in the way I heard she was saying that she was 32 and just broke with her boyfriend...since I was somewhat drunk I slipped next to one of the girls and started to speak with her, and I told her "I know youre having fun, but you look sad, are you having problems?" she said yes, so I told her "allow me to read your hand to see hows ur future gonna be" and she was like "What!?!?! can you read hands!?!?! thats not true" so I asked her... "are you gonna give it a try?" she accepted
I told her that one line right in the 2/3 was faint, so I told her that I was calculating that she was in his early 30s facing a big problem, but as the lined continued, it was normal (without any faintings) so I told her that something good was really going to happen... then the burgers came and I stopped because I was hungry... And she demanded me to keep on reading her hand! I was shocked, normally I fall for girls demands but I said "No! Im hungry and I want to eat, you have to wait" and she waited without any reply, man I enjoyed that burger
After finishing I continued with the palm reading, telling her very nice things and before the bill came we were speaking very nice and my arm was in her back, and caressing her, we accompanied them to the car (they were 2 girls, so just a friend and I went with them) and I asked for her phone and she said that she just had this break up, and she didnt want a new relationship and I quickly replied
"I am like you, single, it doesnt mean I want a relationship, but I want to meet new people and get to know the place with someone that lives here" she gave me her number immediatly.
My friend was getting busy with the other girl, so I gave her a massagge (she was seating in the car) but then I tried to kiss her and she rejected me, I apologized and told her that in Mexico, we give a good bye kiss in the cheeck and she said "ok" and gave me a kiss back. but she didnt looked quite happy, and to make things worst I sent her an SMS when I got home telling her that I was sorry abouth the kiss, but that my real intentions were to kiss her in the ear, that is next to the brain, because I wanted to be inside of her head
Three days passed and sent her a text message, saying hi and that I was really pleased to meet her and that we had a great time, and asked her what did she thinks about it.... and she didn´t reply, should I text her back?
Now on to what I believe I should work out
The first chick:
When she told me that I was a nice guy, I should have fired back with something sexually crazy that I did maybe and ask her about any crazy sexual thing she did... maybe?
After she toasted with this phrase: "For life, alcohol and sex" should I have told/asked her: "Right now we are living our lives, right now were drinking alcohol... hare we gonna have sex right now?" and maybe try to kiss her?
About the girl from the burger place (Zumba instructor by the way, so shes 9-10)
Maybe I shouldnt have tried that kiss, and that SMS wasnt maybe the best thing to do
So Im all eyes to read your critics...
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