It's been so long since I've been out clubbing with the intention to try run some game.
To the point I didn't know where to start!

So instead I just made as many interactions as possible. Talked to every girl I felt like talking to, every girl who I made a moment of eye contact with.

It felt good to do it again, was no routines, just said whatever I felt like.
But I had no goal in mind when I spoke to these girls, I had no intention to close, no intention to isolate, I just spoke for a few minutes, then walked away.

Even though I was talking loads I found it hard to push myself to escalate from just basic conversation, to build attraction and rapport.

I kissed one girl.
That's way too low.

The only fantastic thing was I ended up spending a good hour with my dads receptionists daughter. I'll be going to work monday with some fun stories to tell her mother


If I learnt anything from last night, It is that for opening and conversation, routines aren't needed. But STRUCTURE is. You need to know where you want to push the interaction. Where will it lead.

Maybe for some more practised guys you can just roll with it.
But I'm still learning and felt a little lost with just standing one spot. I'm used to having an idea of where I want to move to next, what I'm going to turn the conversation towards to build the sexual tension, ways to build up the kino.

So I suppose it was a fail.
But I had fun.

That's what counts right?

At least you went out and tried.

I agree that routines aren't needed for opening, you can open with ANYTHING if you do it right. Having a game plan definitely helps though. Keep at it man, you'll get back in there soon enough.

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