I sarged 2 girls in the bar, my opener was perfect. i started to chat with them everything was good until i try an ESP. it didn't work and i lost the girls attention. Then few minute later i used the same opener, talk for about 5min then did to many negs on the girl i was trying to get. she didnt take it well, she was so pissed, she didnt't talk to me the rest of the night lol even if her best friend who were married was still next to me trying to make me talk.i decided to go see somewhere else because i wasn't ready to listen her bullshit. Still motivated, i used the same opener one more time and this time was the jackpot. A pretty personal trainer from overseas, very nice body. this time i use the perfect balance. i didn't have to use any psych stuff (not yet). we talk for about 10min and i told them that i have to leave. I also told her to meet another time where there is less noise. she gave me her phone number and I just texted her. 5min later, she texted me back.

need some help for the rest. this is the hardest part for me . i dt wanna fuck everything up.
let me know if u have any idea.

Seriouslt, my best advice to you is, don't be scared of failure. The only special woman in your life that can never be replaced is your mother. A random girl in a bar that you have just met are nothing to be worried about, look at it as you have options (if you feel you don't, trick yourself into believing it) and you will feel more comfortable. Myself for example, when a girl doesn't reply to a wierd joke I make, I don't cry over that, I just feel that "well, if she can't take that we definitely have no future".

The best way of learning is to try things and then analyse the result, if you make misstakes you will never do them again and you will have learnt something on the way.

How to play the midgame I don't know, just wanted to tell you to stop being anxious

Thats some seriously good mindset to have! This advice should be sticky in the Newbie forum.

Remember, It's called "The Game" because, like a computer game, you can crash/ burn and fail but you just respawn and gltry again.

Good luck.

RESETS

Thanks guys, your advices are totally right. Now I realize that theses failures will set me up for success. I'm gonna keep playing the game until I score perfect lol.
In addition to that, the last girl i was talking to is ready to meet up to have a drink but at the same time she tell me that she's seeing someone.
Wut do u think?

I think YES. Looking forward to a field report.

R

Just tell her you`re seeing someone as well and just wanted to get to know her and enjoy the company you have between you and her. Flawless shit, she won`t have to constantly worry about you trying to hit her. Eventually, she`ll be off guard and that`s where you destroy her boyfriend . Good luck bro.