So i went to this bar/restaurant for a friends birthday. There was this really cute waitress that i wanted to talk to but she was super busy. I tell one of my friends that i will talk to her and he wanted to make a video. In my friend's group, i ma the alpha male and probably the only one who does pick up.As we were leaving i told him that im gonna do it. So i got to the bathroom and try to plan it out so it looks natural, I was a little scared ( this was probably my first non-club approach)... so as i am walking towards her, she is cleaning up the table and i walk right by her...didnt approach her....WTF HAPPEND!!! i was so pissed off...my friend tells me to lets go to another place. He was picking on me for chickening out but that was not what bothered me. I had failed myself. I sat in another bar, all i could think about was how could i chicken out like that. After 10 mins i decided to screw it and just go in. It would be more awkward but i had to show MYSELF that i could do it. I grab my two friends to show them so they would shut up also and i walk into that bar again. As i am looking for her, i cant find her. That out of nowhere i see her. She is walking through the door and I open
Me: Hey..did u happen to find a set of keys here?
HB 9: ummm idk i can ask my manager?
Me: dont worry about it, i actually came here to talk to you
HB9 : gives me a shy smile and blushes a bit
Me: I thought you were really cute and i had actually left this place but came back to talk to you, Do you go to (*** university)
HB9: no i dont
Me: ohh idk i thought i have seen you there
She was super busy and i didnt want her to end it
Me: Hey i gotte get back to my friends but give me your number and we could chat later.
HB9: I have a boyfriend
Me: umm so...i dont care
HB9: no i reallly cant..im sorry
Me: We can be friends...casual
HB9: how about you come visit me here and then we can become friends
Me: I like kinda far from here...
ME: ok how about you give me your name...and ill add you on fb and we wil go from there..
She gives me her name..then i tell her i will add and tell her i will see her later....
I should have give her a hug but i was blanking out big time. I know prob made tons of mistake so im ready for some tips/criticism....
btw she does have a bf...who was in the marines/personal trainer and bartender at that same place... not messing with this haha
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