Hello guys,

This weekend, I had a *date* with a girl I met at a club 2 weeks ago. We we're supposed to meet at a night club and see where things goes.

Here's my FR about it, but I will make it quick since I think it's pretty lame...

So the night starts off, I manage to get in the club even though it's usually 21+. Directly when I get in, I see those 7 girls with bottles and VIP couches. I walk up to them and start flirting. Soon enough, we have our seats in the VIP and it's all good time!

The girl I was supposed to see arrived a bit after, she came in the VIP with us and I talked to her for a bit. But,

but...

but...

Jeez!

She was fucking stupid. She couldn't hold a conversation for more than 1 minute. She kept receiving and messaging people while I was talking to her. And God knows, this must be one of those things that annoy the hell out of me! At one point, she recognized some guy she knew and went up to talk to him WHILE I was talking. All of those things that I hate about someone... She reminded me of one of my ex... The worst part is that she was probably doing this unintentionally because she still seemed into me.

After 25 minutes, I couldn't take it anymore. I just fucking left her. She messaged me to tell me to come see her at one point and I did not answer my phone. I was so fed up of her! It's not like I have hard time getting girl, I will not waste my time on a girl that I think is fucking annoying. She might be cute, but looks don't mean shit if you can't stand the girl!

I ended up going on the dancefloor and made out with another girl. At the end of the night, she messaged me stupid shit like: OMG I just felt in the stairs! I feel so ashamed! ahahhsdsa

Which basically confirmed the fact that I will NOT see her again! She does not worth it.

Moral of the story: As an AFC, rAFC, PUA or even MPUA, we often try to seduce girls and wonder if they likes us... But we should also focus about what do WE think about the girl? Why should I try to game her if I think she is so stupid?

Anyways, I hope you get my point. I'm out.

Peace

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

I guess that's a call for each and every one of us here. I use not to really give a flip just take em home and kick em out the next morning. Now a days I pretty much won't sleep with anyone or game anyone that I don't really see a "possibility" of a relationship with.

I had this terrible date the other night. We went out to dinner and this is like our 4th date. She didn't say shit and relied on me to keep the conversation going. After a while I decided to be quiet to see if just the akwardness of being quiet would make her talk,...nope! She just asked me why I was looking at her and said come up with something to talk about....

Afterwards on the way home she's kissing me and trying to set future dates cause she had such a great time. WTF.... it's weird sometimes bro, but I get your point completely.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

I don't mean to be rude or anything, especially as i'm new to PU, but i don't think it was her fault, or that she was stupid.
It seems that you're skilled in Opening (because you later made out with someone else that night), but Maintaining is another story.
You should have tried, and after her first initial sign of disinterest, move on, because she's not good enough for you, and it'd make you look weak, (especially if other girls saw you talking and trying to communicate with a girl on her phone).
Don't see this experience as negative, and by seeing where you failed, will you truly understand how to succeed next time.
Don't take it to heart. So many others do, thereby lowering their confidence and turning them into an AFC.

Crimson.

I spoke to you about this a little bit on the chat, and most people agreed that

Club = not a date

you cant expect date like 1 on 1 conversation in a club.

Clubs are loud, too many distractions and I think theyre about quantity of social interactions, not quality. Hence the texting other people who might be coming / talking to other guys who she knew.

If a girl took me to a nightclub for a date I wouldnt want to hang out with her the whole time... Id be trying to meet my friends too. I think the date choice was a bad idea.

It sounded like you wanted a hangout laid back date to get to know her before you do any real date, so I would suggest more of a Bar like scene, where you can still have a few beers and talk. But youre not going to get completely wasted and dance and fall down stairs.