This is a re initiation of contact with a chick who I hadn't made contact with in a week or so. I'm normally a laid back joking kind of guy but for this I decided to attempt to go full blast cocky funny and see how well it works for me.

Me: who's number is this again? Some stranger I think

Her:Hahaha very funny red* I dont know whos number this is.

Me: You dont know who you are? That could be a problem. Well if you dont have a name I'll give you one. How's bob sound?

Her: No I'm pretty sure I'm a girl

Me: Pretty sure? What, you havnt checked in a while lol

Her: well I have two outstanding features that prove I'm a girl

Me: What if I said I dont believe you?

Her:then you're an ass yes

Me:Yes to what? anything I want right? It's a blank yes check?

Her: I guess so.

Me: That sounds like it could be fun. Would you rather see me tomorrow or wed?

Her:Tomorrow, I work wed.

Me: Ok see you tomorrow bob

Her: My name is not bob!!!!!

Me:Maybe you'll get a chance to earn a new nickname tomorrow, till then its stuck.

Her: ok fine!!!


I thought I did pretty well setting it up to make it obviously sexual but when I went there and hung out with her I was hit with some major confusion. One of the first things that gets mentioned in conversation is her boyfriend (didnt previously know she had one) I took that at first as a major IOD but she was mostly talking about problems she was having with him and how they may have to break up. It crossed my mind that she may just be a cheater since she invited still invited a guy over after a conversation with such a heavy sexual undertone. I went into kino early despite this. I sat hips touching on the porch (I had her wait out there so I could tell which house It was). She was playing an iphone game and talking a mile a minute about the bf thing. I playfully touch the screen to mess with her game. Good reception. Still talking about stuff. She obviously loves attention. I make a comment about a ring shes wearing and motion for her to put her hand in mine to check out the ring. She does. I get her to play a kino game drawing letters on each others back with fingers and guessing the word. She runs with it and keeps drawing letters. We go for a walk. I figure it's good to have a setting change since I've read it's supposed to make the target have more comfort/trust in the long run seeing my face in diff places. I talk about fall being my favorite time of year and ask what hers is meaning to attempt patterning in association with whatever good feelings she thinks of when choosing. I don't really have any experience with patterning, in fact it's one of my sticking points. Thats fine though cause she practically patterns herself. She goes on, talking about thanksgiving and tastes & smells and later I get her going on about writing fiction and how you can get sucked in and not want to return to everyone elses reality. I thought this was all going well. But unfortunately since she lived w/ her mother there was a time constraint for my visit. She went to pick up her mom and I went to go get a move. She asked me to just stay and wait outside but that's what I probably would have said to gain compliance so I figured I'd leave for a little bit instead. Thinking of it as sort of a negative reaction ment to condition her but I have no idea if it worked that way cause I'm new to this. I get the movie and still chill for a minute before going back. She texts me saying to hurry up. I tell her I move my own speed. She then tells me about her mothers time constraint. I dont text back till I get there and say 'Here jeez'. She gets me something to drink and she drinks from it too. IOI? We barely even get halfway through the movie before I have to go.

No idea if what I did was achieving the right results or if I'm even interpreting all of her signals the right way. Feedback from some more advanced forum members would be excellent!