HOW WE MET
I met her on an online dating site and instantly closed her #. There was 2 weeks of texting and during this time frame there was a strong connection built. We setup a time to meet, but because of her kid we had to reschedule a few times. Towards the end of the 2nd week, we make plans go out last Thursday, but because of her kid she had to cancel. I told her I'm blowing off my plans on Friday and so are you and we're going to go out. She agrees and definitively was into me taking charge and telling her what's going on and blew off her plans with her friends for Friday.
THE MEETING: I tell her to come to my apartment and we'll leave together from here. So she finally arrives and walks up to my door. I'm looking at her from far away and I'm like saying to myself, Yes she looks better in person. So I invite her in to my apartment and we start chatting. She looks around and was impressed with the layout of my place. She pays a compliment of my apartment saying how nice it was and that it was very clean. I ignore her compliment and pour her a shot. At this point I want to make her feel comfortable in my apartment so when we come back later it won't seem like a new strange place she's never been to. I pour a glass a wine for her and say "You told me you like men who wear cologne, let me show you my collection." She follows me into my bedroom and looks around and looks at my neatly made bed then looks at my cologne. I tell her to pick one out for me. She picks out one. I say really? I don't like that one that much it gives me headaches. I'll put it on though. So I do a few sprays. She starts to smell it on me and leans real close. I then smell the perfume on her neck real slowly and then say you smell really good. Let's head out.
1st Bar:
So we get to the parking garage and I tell her to hold onto my change, smokes, and lighter in her purse. I wanted her to hold onto my stuff as an initial way to build a stronger connection. We get to the 1st bar and we start conversating. I'm doing light kino touching her arm and her back as we talk. I'm being very social talking to other mixed groups. She's a very social person too and like this.
SECOND BAR: Kiss close
We head out to the 2nd bar and both sit at the bar and order martinis. Now we have some really heavy kino going on with both sides and the convo gets deeper. I start escalating by rubbing her leg when I talk to her. She like this as she turned her chair towards me and had her knee facing me at an angle. Now its time for the kiss close. She said something to me, and I go what and lean in and put my ear next to her mouth so I can hear her. After she says what I couldn't hear, I slowly move my head back but in a way where are cheeks are touching, then our nose. We start instantly making out at the bar multiple times. At this point there are other HB around the bar who are starting to look at me with IOI. I start chatting with some of the girls looking at me, with my back turned to my date, and she jumps in the convo. lol. We close out the bar, and head back to the car.
We stop by the waffle house near my apartment and sat in a booth. Her legs are stretched out so her feet are are on my side of the booth. I start rubbing her legs while we eat our food. Its on at this point.
Closing with a twist:
We get to my apartment and I park my car. "Do you want to come in a little bit and sober up before you drive home? (She lives about 35 minutes away) She goes yea I think I should come in for a little. So we walk into my apartment, the lights are off, my roommate is passed out on the couch. I whisper in her ear don't turn on the lights, my roommate passed out on the couch. At this point she is leading me to my bedroom in the dark in my own freakin apartment. We start making out on the bed and of course she starts getting txt msg and phone calls from her friends.
The CB:
She stops making out with me to reply to the texts she is receiving from her friends. Now the CB starts to happen from 40 minutes away from her friends. Her BFF calls her to make sure she is ok. After 5 minutes of her saying "no he's totally cool, he is what he says he is on his profile. Yes I'm ok." I then grab the phone from her and start talking to her BFF. I'm like hey *BFF Name**. I'm **Whiterice**. I had a really fun time with your friend. We totally clicked. We're just hanging out at my place right now. Don't worry, I don't have the knive to her throat anymore. She is here on her own free will right now. She laughs, but then doesn't let go of the CB. She then starts to talk to me. I'm saying to myself this shit needs to stop. When I start talking I start leaving out words and saying broken sentences like we're loosing reception. lololol. I then go hey *BFF Name* I think we have a bad signal going on right now. What? I can't hear you. Then she hangs up. Of course she doesn't give up. She is defiantly the mother hen lolol. She calls back so I grab the phone take out the battery and chuck it across the room. Problem solved lol.
So now we're back to making out and we're feeling eachother up. I then go to her bra and start to undo it. She goes, no that doesnt come off until the 3rd date. (LIAR!!!!) I stop at this point. And we start talking again. Then 2 minutes later I go back at it, but instead of taking off her bra I just pop her tits our her bra and shirt. There is no resistance from her. I guess the bra really does come off on the 3rd date, but the tits come out on the 1st lol. I start sucking on her tits and then undo her pants. I start to pull them down to her knees and she goes you want to see my panties? I start kissing on her belly button and then pull down her panties and NOW there is resistance. She goes no, we can't. I start to kiss her belly button again and pull down her panties just enough to see her kitty. It's clean shaven. I'm saying to myself "Are you kidding me, its shaved and you're saying no you don't want to?" I pull down her panties more and now she grabs them and goes no I need to have more self respect for myself. At this point I'm going to fuck with your mind. I pull up her panties, pull up her pants and say You're right. I won't disrespect you like that. If you don't want to right now, we won't. She says thank you, but her eyes said the complete opposite.
Now she has a feeling of rejection on her, I can see it and feel it. To sum it up at this point, we didn't F close, but because I didn't proceed. But, now she won't stop texting me and keeps asking me when I'm coming up to see her. Although I didn't F close the 1st night because I stopped it, I have a good feeling that I can F close other nights without much effort.
Hopefully this won't backfire on me
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