Hello all, I first discovered PU a year ago, a little while after my ex and I met. I read the game and I felt a change. I'm 29 now so feel as if time is running out for me in the relationship world.


Anyway I had a Long distance relationship which went down the pan and I was pretty devastated so decided I would try and better myself. Its been nearly a month since the break up, and in that time I have read MM and David D’s material and have started the styleslife challenge (I’m on day 6), I have done a lot of research on this forum as well.


2 Weeks ago was my first time trying to sarge. A friend of mine and I headed in to central London on a Friday. I had a lot of AA at first and instantly broke the 3 second rule.


There was a HB7.5 giving me the eye on the dance floor, she was with a hen party and there were about 10 girls with her, I just didn’t know how to approach her, the music was pumping and I was lost thinking about openers and how loud it was.
We went to the bar and I complimented the girl serving on her bracelet in an attempt to abolish my AA, then we eventually drifted to the upstairs bar area and sat down on a table. Behind me there were two HB’s both 8’s.


One was blonde the other a brunette. The blonde started speaking to a guy, and the brunette started to mess with her phone, so I glanced over my shoulder and opened her with “hi, let me get your opinion on something” and I went into the “is kissing cheating” routine.


As we were interacting, I started to turn my chair around, and totally forgot to DHV or kino or neg, instead I went into ESP. I got the first one wrong but got the 2nd correct “You guessed” she said. Then again I failed to DHV or kino or neg and went straight into the carrot routine.


I got mid way through the routine and HB8 blonde just finished speaking to the dude and looked like she was about to let the water works out, at which point HB 8 Brunette (from new Zealand) said

“I’m really sorry, I hope everything works out for your friend, but I got to go because I need to sort out my friend because she broke up with her boyfriend”

Damn it! So then I decided I would go into the smoking bit and open with can I borrow a light to this 3 set I saw out of the window. As I asked the question I could sense my AA coming back so I simply got a light and smoked. Instead of opening the 3 set, in all due fairness there was only on HB in that group around a HB6.

My friend came to join me, outside and a 2 set approached us and asked for a light, we obliged, one was a HB7.5 the other not a HB as such! Lol! I made sure I had the 7.5 just behind my shoulder while I spoke to her friend.

Her friend started to ask me how pretty I though the HB 7.5 was, and I just neged her by saying “shes ok, not bad” the target was smiling, and took the neg well. I was just about to start the routine and they saw one of their drunk friends rolling around on the floor so they went to attend. I didn’t want to look needy so we went back to the floor.


We noticed a 5 set, and when we went out for our next ciggi break. My wing went straight up to the two 9s and 8! (he was pretty smashed) I then isolated the HB 7.5 and her friend. Making sure the HB 7.5 was over my shoulder.

I started with the Opinion opener, (is kissing cheating) and when I asked the question the HB7.5 immediately said

“ you have a friend, so you mean you”
I was tried to neg her about interrupting and carried on. I then went into ESP on the HBs friend and the

HB 7.5 was like “ what is the point of this”

Me: “its fun and im being social,” I look up at HBs friend and give it the old “cant take this one anywhere can you”

I finished this routine and I was about to go into the carrot routine, the HB 7.5 lost interest and went over to her other friends who my wing was still talking too. I finished the routine for the practise, and then we went over to the group. Once our cigs were done we parted ways.

I couldn’t for the life of me go up to anyone in the club, because I didn’t want to lean in to talk and it was so loud

Where did I go wrong:

2set New Zealand girl:
a. No Negs
b. She was the target and I couldn’t/didn’t engage the friend

5set
a. The group was broken so I did not have the attention of the whole group
b. No lock in prop

All in all not a great first night, not even a number!

Any opinions or thoughts would be appreciated.