| My first field report. Before I begin, I want to say that I have been living and breathing game for the last month and a half. I haven’t posted anything since my first lay report. I have followed Mystery’s newbie mission to a tee, going out every night. I have been so enveloped, in fact, that there have been a couple times where I have been too involved, too concerned about getting laid. But that’s a different story.
Tonight, I went to a local bar called “The Stone”. It was fantastic. I arrived, and noticed that it was actually busy. I walked in and felt absolutely no fear. Not a single fiber in my body had approach anxiety. I know that multiple PUA’s such as Mystery, AFC Adam, etc have said that approach anxiety never goes away, but I felt nothing. I just was clear. There were sets that were to be opened, and I knew how to do it.
I walked to the bar and ordered water. Let me stress that. A single cup of water. Not one drop of alcohol entered my system tonight. I recently saw a post where some guy was talking about how he “was so drunk”. I don’t do that AFC shit anymore, regardless of the situation. I talked with the HB8 Bartender Erin, and I made fluff talk. As I left, I was already building social proof, forcing IOI’s with basically everybody I made eye contact with.
I made my way to the smoke pit. I would like to say I find this is the easiest place to meet girls, because I already have that commonality, before I even open. I will immediately neg a girl about how terrible smoking is, while I have a smoke in my hand. I believe this is true anywhere though. If you like dancing, make you way to the dance floor and run dance floor game. If you have bartended, wait at the bar and DHV at the bar. It works wonders, and it sets you at ease. I just choose the smoke pit because it’s quieter.
As I walked outside, I made small talk with some random person. As I was talking, I noticed my friend (HB8) Natasha walks out. I overheard her say something like “I think that’s Royal over there.” I immediately steered the conversation and mirrored exactly what she said, without even looking “I think that’s Natasha over there”
I walked right over to her and made fluff talk, and opened with a familiarity opener. We talked, and because I just met her a week ago, I decided to attempt the Coin DHV by Style. I only had pennies, so I asked her if she had any nickels or dimes. This was the gateway in which I used her as a pivot to an adjacent set, because we ended up getting a nickel and a dime from 2 HB9’s. (Deanna and Alyssa)
“Fuck it, you guys can watch too”
I demonstrated basically in front of everybody, how Ben’s Parents had 3 children haha. I had only used it once before, and it was already congruent. However, I heard some guy pipe up “Fuck man, you’re like some Chris Angel”
I respect everybody, but this guy was going to be trouble for me all fucking night. Tonight was the first time somebody tried to tool me in front of my set the whole night.
I opened with Deanna and Alyssa, while Natasha went back in. I was the funny, arrogant guy that wasn’t afraid to make fun of them. I used the “High 5 like your slapping ass” routine, and I know it built social proof. I made sure that people repeatedly saw me, talking to these girls.
They went back inside, and I stayed outside. I viewed it as intermission, because I knew they would be coming back. I really want to figure out a statistic of how long smokers spend in proportion to being in the bar. I wasn’t terribly concerned, and so I talked to my buddy about the game, and what I’m learning.
It is possible to talk about the game in front of girls. I always disguise it as a practical application of psychology and sociology, and openly talk about it. I have the background necessary to support such claims (I actually study psychology). It’s also important to DHV about other things, and let girls know this isn’t all you do.
As Deanna and Alyssa came back, Kyle the AMOG who was trying to fuck with me, started calling me out on everything. The way I got through was be continuously reinforcing my frame.
AMOG: “Look at this guy, talking to both you girls. Only assholes do that”
Me: “If you want to say socializing is being an asshole, then by all means, I’m the biggest asshole around”
AMOG: “Let’s see you levitate, Houdini”
Me: “Are you kidding me, I can’t do that shit, I left my Viagra at home” Accompanied with a teasing smile at HB’s, followed by a neg “I know it probably makes you sad, hey?”
AMOG “Look, it’s that Chris Angel guy again”
Ignore, continue stacking routines.
I think the most important part was that I NEVER engaged or played into his frame. I also used Mystery’s No lose kiss close, while applying Gambler’s micro-escalation. No kiss, but it felt good to be the one to tell her “You’re not that lucky.”
I basically ordered both girls to give me the numbers at the end of the night. They both had school in the morning, and so I texted both of them shortly after receiving their numbers. This made me different than the other guys that came up to them and talked. Those guys may make out with them that night or even take them home, but I know that these girls will not respond to them in the morning. Me, on the other hand…
As I was leaving, I ran into my “wife” that I met a couple weeks ago. I immediately negged, stating how she looked like she “was having fun” sarcastically. She was talking to me about another guy, and so I talked briefly about my past AFC ways, how I waited for “the special girl” for 2 years and got her. How I got hurt, and how love is superficial and not forever. I’m going to work on that routine actually, now that I think about it.
Overall this night was a success. I played the game beautifully. I do need to work on kino, but it was nice to be out. I felt alive, and it didn’t even feel like I was trying.
Questions or comments would be greatly appreciated. That’s what this forum is about, right?
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