Hope that this report can be helpful to some of you:

I haven't really 'sarged' in a long time. And lately, if I did, the goal was to open a few, bring them back to my friends, then play a supportive role. *By the way, if you can do this effectively, you will make more friends than your schedule allows. Look, men are simple. They say that more wars were fought in the name of religion than for any other reason but peel away at some of that mumbo jumbo and it always comes down to a few powerful guys wanting more vaginal juice in their cupboard. This is why there's so much prostitution involved in upper corporate culture all over the World. Hey, this sort of thing even works when you pay for it. If you can demonstrate an innate ability to just pick out a few hot 'civilians' and pass them off to your friends as if, "Well, I can just get mine another time," you'll get invites; boardrooms, yacht parties, VIP clubs, etc . . . whatever that is within the power of those who you associate with, they will share these powers with you. On the other hand, be the guy who has the ability to pick up chicks and disappears every night and you'll get the high fives. You won't get the invites. This is just a reality.

Any how, on this particular night, I had the time and opportunity to go out by myself. . . and I knew I'd get one. On to the report:

I. Manage Your Perceptions

In many posts and particularly the journals, there seems to be a lot of guys who experience some mood swings due to unfavorable results of their 'game'. The flowchart most often works something like this:

1. Unfavorable result.
2. Negative emotions.
3. Analysis(Usually just pop shot perceptions) of unfavorable result.
4. Slow down or STOP initial strategy.

You already know the problems with the above. Negative emotions never help with judgement but hinders it. It leads to unclear thoughts and self doubt. Obviously, unclear thoughts and self doubt can only lead to a SLOW DOWN; if you can't see the road ahead while driving, what do you do?

In order to block 2, "negative emotions", many go the delusional angry guy route; You've seen plenty of these posts here: "I am better than her. She's a bitch and a whore. She's a stuck up cunt, etc . . ." Although this might temporarily block self-directed negative emotions for a short period, 1. It never lasts (This is a delusional fantasy after all) 2. More importantly, it won't set you up to continue sarging with a better strategy. Removing humanity, compassion, and thoughtfulness might help some kids kill a bunch of 'gooks', 'krauts', 'japs', or 'towelheads' but it won't help you ATTRACT others to you.

Last Sunday, the girl I pulled out of the bar was the 6th I opened. I suppose I got 'blown out' a lot. Perhaps I am a KJ afterall, lol . . Some advice, mostly nitpicking of others, and lots of failures on the field. After going through a few "unfavorable results", I realized that I habitually follow a different flowchart from the many you see in this forum:

1. Negative result.
2. Analysis of negative result.
3. Emotions (Yes, I have emotions too)
4. Alternate Strategy.

I bet the guys who have some decent history with pu (or success in any endeavor) follow a similar flowchart. I haven't always been this way . . . and I don't do this every time with everything in my life but generally, this is what happens. The concept of 'watching myself' was repeatedly taught to me by some people in my life over the years. The idea is to get to "analysis of negative result" as soon as possible and put more energy and time into this than on "emotions". Do this enough and the order in which you do these two things will flip.

Your emotions based on "negative results" will ALWAYS be different than emotions based on the "analysis of negative results". My experience is that one helps you achieve your goals while the other hinders you. Here are samples of my 1,2,3,4 for each "negative result" from last Sunday night.

1. Talked up the fatty of a group thinking she was the mother hen and she turned her back to me.
2. My God, the boys were mean to her while growing up.
3. Sad.
4. Find the mother hen. Must include this girl in on some fun.

1. Found the mother hen. Very receptive to conversation. I get up to get closer to the mother hen and the hot girl of the group sits on my chair and says, "Wow, this seat is hot." I jumped the gun and told her, "My lap is hotter." We switch and she sits on my lap for a moment. Mother hen is furious. The girl gets nervous and jumps off but sings and dances away. The mother hen never looks at me again.
2. LOL . . . Not very patient was I?
3. Sad again. . . this must happen often in this group. The hottie hovers and shows off. She can't ever meet anybody. The mother hen never gets attention, and her talkative sidekick just sits there and does play by play commentary. The fatties are just plain sad. . .
4. Go grab a drink, open a few others, come back when this tiny smoke clears.

1. HB10 blonde at the bar, tall . . . dancing in front of what looks like a couple sitting at the bar. All three look like Ken/Barbie dolls. OK, I didn't even have a chance to open. A guy at the bar thinks I look like some guy who frequents his restaurant. Buys me a drink. Then like a chick, I feel like I should at least hear his story out for buying me a drink. I want to swig but it's a damn martini. Meanwhile, I see two guys actually attempt to open the hb10. I'm thinking, "openers, openers" while this guy is going on and on and on . . . the group leaves.
2. Only chicks let strangers buy them drinks you cheap bastard!
3. I guess this is how strippers feel?
4. Get the F out of this bar.

*On the way out, I get no happy bye bye's from the first group but I still wedge myself in and let them know that I'm going to the next club.

1. Tall Asian girl next to a tall brunette. Both very cute, well dressed, well made up. It's an 'outdoor' club with a line that passes by a low partition that separates the inside from the outside. I open the Asian girl. The guy hanging by the brunette knows me. Wants to give me a drink. Shit, another guy getting me a drink. I want to say no but I guess I'm a cheap bastard. The guy takes the opportunity to isolate his chick, leaving the Asian one behind. I'm drinking from the outside. The door guy tells me that I'm not allowed to drink from the outside but since he knows me, he'll just let me in from the back 'rope' without charge. The Asian girl is 'fake texting' the whole time, oblivious to any conversation attempts. Almost runs away looking for her friend.
2. This girl is not very comfortable alone without her female companion 'watching over her' . . . and I haven't been able to break any ice . . . but I guess I look like a cheap side kick bastard getting a drink for free, getting in for free and chatting up bs for a while. Riff raff city . . .
3. LOL, I didn't even have the time/opportunity to act creepy. I think guys at the very least deserve to have enough time to act creepy. Wow, that was a record for me.
4. Clear this scene quickly as if I just farted. This is a crime scene right here.

1. I know the girl working the bar and chat with her as such. She doesn't know me. She just started working there and almost looks like she wants to cut me off. (I haven't had that many drinks at all)
2. OK, I might be getting drunk now but then why does every bartender look like THAT?
3. I feel like I haven't studied for an exam that I have to take in an hour. By the way, the club closes in less than an hour.
4. Avoid the last minute fast troll through the club which usually just robs time. Stick close to the bar. Stick close to the door.

On to Lucky #6:

II. If your goal is to prove something to your friends, then go ahead a cockblock yourself. If your goal is to get laid, use every crutch(assets) you have.

Jackie Chan beats up his enemies using everything in the room. This is resourcefulness. Tonight, I happen to have access to a boat that is well stocked with liquor. This girl is already looking me by the time I see her. Short, well gelled platinum blonde look. She's at the bar, her drink is empty. Open - receptive - share names -quick palm read - touchy feely - good conversation - lots of staring - all is good. Her friend shows out of nowhere and tells her, "I have to pee, let's go." She looks apprehensive but the 'pee thing' is a strict code for women. Men don't let their buddies beer goggle. Women don't let their buddies pee by themselves.

I'm thinking I might be done but stick with the bar and strike up a conversation with the next girl. This is a straight forward, "how's it going" type of thing. When the blonde returns, she physically wedges herself in front of this girl and gets right up to me. So I tell her, "Hey, the bar is about to close, how about a few beers on a boat?" Game on.

The girl's sister and friend comes by and wants to grab a cab. She tells them to go ahead and that she's getting a ride home. Later on, the sister will call her to make sure she's alright. At that time, she is very, very 'alright'. And in hindsight, the whole night is laughable isn't it?