So I started my first night out using the material I wanted to use from the Game and this website in a way I kind of molded.

Me and my friends left the building (by the way I AM IN COLLEGE..if i needed to note)....awkward silence, nobody said anything on the way to the bus...no contact with anyone on the bus, no nothing...felt horribly awkward and with real low social value

Came to the party....like 6 or 7 dudes there I didn't know but my friend did..so I choked and looked at my phone a bit, hid on the porch where nobody was because I couldn't stand to make awkward conversation. Eventually, when girls came it got so awkward I left the house in a fast rush and walked up and down the same street, avoiding people by hiding behind bushes, between cars..I didn't want ANYBODY to see me...

the awkwardness was horrible...I sat there with nobody and contemplated openers. It was frustrating. Came back from sheer will...and say "Hi, ladies" to a couple ladies and continue walking....they freeze, and I was like "oh im sorry...didnt mean to be rude and not talk to any of you..." turns out I knew like half the girls in the group. I was still nervous, and alone, so I was like "guess I'm the lucky guy" and awkwardly walked with them to the party.

Heres' how the openers and game went.

HB8 comes

Joke about how drunk everybody else
Shake hands
Say "you can tell a lot about somebody based on their handshake"
Ran the ring finger versus index finger test
Ran the 5 finger test (each finger represents a Greek god..etc. some routine i read)

The interest was there, but afterwards it died off and I didn't know what else to do to spark it back again...so she went out.

Another girl outside, HB7. told her openly to react as if I WAS trying to pick her up

Ran ring vs. index finger test
ran 5 finger test

then, I used the jealous girlfriend opener....and died from there. It was a mutual, "oh, you were interesting for like 10 minutes" conversation....


What can I do to improve, afterwards the entire night I was extremely confident in walking up to anybody. This HB10 from my old college, though I approached the wrong way ("you went to my old college and we used to hang out together!" sparked a very brief, excited conversation and a casual kiss....on the lips, so i was excited.''

what should I do to improve the effectiveness and closing-ness of my technique? I feel I did alright but did not seal the deal right at all.

One problem I know I have is insulting other people, kind of like Tyler Durden in the Game. I'm very foul mouthed swearing wise, it's a habit, but I called girls that my friend knew "hoes" in front of him as a joke....he quickly covered up...but that was not smooth

Hi

Just began sarging myself too! I read you were very tense entering the party. You always have that, or only when your objective is too really find girls? Just try to have fun, laugh when you enter the building, dance, start a conversation with some guys or less pretty girls. You don't have to think about seducing them right away. Don't think about DHV's or negging at first. Be friendly and casual. After a few conversations you will find it easier to make contact and it will also help you to improvise. If a story helped you before with making contact to others, do it again, improve it even if it needs a small lie to make it more interesting.

When i go out, i make sure to watch a vid that gives me a good mood. f.e. I watch Louis Armstrong perform some songs with his great smile, that cheers up everyone. With that mindset I enter a party, a good spirit and thinking I am the gentleman type of guy from the 50's every boy and girls looks up to.

To conclude, relax and have fun so everybody notices that. Afterwards you can open a set, but who knows by that time a girl opened you