| OK, so this is my first ever in field experience. I've never sarged or really "hit on" girls before. Maybe a flirt here and there, but nothing more.
So my wing whom I met today, a215bz, and I went to the London Notting Hill Carnival, where there were thousands of people. So great day to go sarging. I had read up on night game quite a bit, but I was definitely not prepared for day-game.
Anyway, we began sarging. He approached the first two sets. He's a very confident guy and has incredible natural game, miles ahead of me. He can talk for hours it seems.
Anyway, I then approach my first set. 3 girls, HB6-7s, and ask them how long the carnival is on for. They say til around 7. I follow up with "Does it end today? Shit! I wanted to bring my friends along, 'cause I'm only here for the week, you know..." One of the girls gives me an "aww" look, and I ran out of things to say and eject with "Well thanks guys, have a good day"
Second set - this was my best set.
I approach two HB7-8. Smaller than me. Ask them how long the carnival is on for. They reply really happily and bubbly, "It goes on til around 7 or 7.30."
I follow up with the above.
I then add "And do you know where I can get one of those large yellow feathers to put aroud your ear? cause I saw this dude walking around with this feather, and I wanted to get my niece in Austria one."
They point this way and that, I play along. I then eject as I ran out of things to say. Lasted for about 1-2 minutes.
3rd set - Not a bad set, but I pissed the target off.
So I approach another 2-set, walking, and incredibly, they slow their pace with me. I ask them about the carnival, and Target replies with "It ends when you want it to." They then go on to something about trouble, can't remember what exactly, and I'm like, so are you the one who brings the trouble or what? And she's like noo!
Her friend talks and then she talks as well, and this is where I mess up. I Neg her. Ouch. I say "Honey, your friend's talking" - it did the job, it shut her up, but it pissed her off.
I then smile and eject.
4th set - quickest set.
Approach a 2-set sitting, and the whole interaction is literally just me asking the question about the feather thing, and them answering no. I say thank you.
So, all in all, even though I was absolutely not prepared for this type of stuff, I learned a lot.
This is fun
Girls are friendly to strangers
I need something to talk about after the opener - a215bz is a natural, he can talk. I can't.
I also learnt a lot about attitude. I shouldn't be too mean, because I am at times (trying to show confidence - which in the end is just being a total dick). I need to smile and relax more.
a215bz opened this one girl with "Hey, how old are you?" and they totally got it on. It was incredible to watch. Attraction, Escalation, the whole thing. She was so interested in him that they left together and left me on my own. Well, at least it gave me time to open other sets.
Peace out!
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