I N-closed a cute girl at the mess hall. Not gonna elaborate because at my level N-closes don't mean shit.

I'm gonna go out to the mall today for the 25 K-close rejection. For those of you who don't know what this is, you have to be rejected 25 times to complete the challenge. If she doesn't walk away, she's still game.

Wish me luck, I just finished Module 1 of the Daygame Blueprint.

EDIT:
Mall wasn't target rich and I got AA on 2 approachable sets (AFC, I know).

Approached one girl walking back to my dorm. She said she was late for SPAM and said "Thank you though". Was this a preprogrammed response or did she know what I was up to? I think the latter is unlikely.

I can't give up. I will do a PUA tour of duty around Boulder. I plan on riding the bus around and approaching one sets. Hopefully my AA won't be as bad. If it is, I just have to work through it.

EDIT 2:
Well that was weak. Since when did my AA get so bad? I need to work on this. Maybe it's about time I put in effort to the HB's that I've N-closed. I'm sick of approaching. I'm going to go out and sarge tomorrow after class. I just need to make time to study.

Seriously, this is becomng BS, what happened? I think I'm afraid of following up. I've been focusing way too much on the SNL and not enough on the Day 2's.

I'm kinda in a slump right now. This sucks. In addition, I haven't gotten advice from this Journal in a while. It seems like a few months ago I was better than I am now.

EDIT 3:
I've been feeling kinda depressed lately. I hope this is just because I'm sick. I haven't been depressed since I was 15 or 16. Maybe I can just transfer that energy so that I just think that I'm tired.

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My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124

Well, that went away quickly. I was depressed for about 2 days. Nothing worth a field report today but girl's were laughing at every joke I made. I feel pretty good except for all of the papers due.

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My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124

Field Report:

So my mom (who I'm not close to) has this foreign exchange student program where every few months or so there's a new set of HB's.

There were two today, a chick from Japan and another from Quebec.

I started by playing backgammon with the one from Quebec (who I decided was the target). I won by one piece. I built tension, I kino'd, and I just assumed she liked me. We played a game called guess rugby7's race which the target had a lot of fun with. I said if she could guess it I would kiss her. She wanted to be kissed on the cheek (I wasn't going to push it that far just then, I'd go for the K-close later). By dinner she was the one who was keeping the conversation going (first time I've ever been able to do that with a foreign chick). Then I probably built too much rapport. I undid some of it.

The issue is that the Japanese chick wanted to party. At the end we went back to my mom's place and the girls were in a rush to go (a friend was picking them up). I N-closed the girl and said "Kiss me". She happens to have trouble forming bonds with people. I said "I know you want to". She agreed but wouldn't kiss me because she was in a rush.

So I'm pissed about not being able to K-close.

My sticking point tomorrow for sarging with Jay is to just go for it even if I come off as creepy. Best put in Flawless Natural, I'll be "getting my creep on!"

EDIT:

Didn't completely fuck up with this girl! She texted me back saying that she had a good time and was sorry that she was in a rush. How does attraction diminish over time? I think the next time I'll be able to go for the lay is all the way in December 23rd. No I'm not gonna come off as needy, I'll just probably invite her for something and let nature take its course...

EDIT2:

Well fuck me, looking back at it I totally could have pulled her back to my place. She was giving all the signs. Fuck fuck fuck! Rather than Should of, Could of, and would of my mentality should be I can and I will. Fuck!

At least I learned something... that I'll probably never be able to reuse...

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My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124

So i went to a Mall with Jay (the fellow rugby player). There were very few targets, but Jay pushing me into 13 year old girls and married women only made me anxious. I threatened to not sarge with him if he kept on doing that.

So yeah, that was a fail. Never go to malls in lower class areas, most chicks are ugs and the hot ones are stupid as fuck.

I tried flirting with a girl at red robin who was in charge of seating. She was an idiot. She said "You'll have to wait a moment." I replied with "How long is a moment?". She said 5 minutes. I laughed and said "No, do you know how long a moment is? In medieval times it was an actually a unit of time." She said 5 minutes. This went on for a while. She was a complete idiot.

I do better with women with some intelligence. The stereotype of idiots being easy to pickup is false.

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My PUA Journey (2014): http://bit.ly/1yYjtSV
MY PUA Journey (2015): the-342-journal-vol-2-rugby7-vt187356.html
My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124

Your level? You're new, man. I know you're doing well, very well for how long you've been here... but be humble, modest. Keep up the good work, though.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.

Fine, not "at my level", but with all of the shit I've been doing shouldn't know better?

Anyway, I've got finals coming up and have been preparing for the military and stuff so that's why I've been AWOL. I'm gonna sarge a lot over the break and finally get rid of my gut (It's not big, but I'm shooting for a 6-pack!). Wish me luck.

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MY PUA Journey (2015): the-342-journal-vol-2-rugby7-vt187356.html
My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124

I could be wrong but I read that as him saying at the level he perceives himself to be at presently, he feels like it is not a regularly common occurrence for a # close to turn into more so there was no point in his mind to elaborate on the # close.

Ah, my bad. I wasn't trying to be a cock, I just saw that he was improving fast, and didn't want him to have that crash that I had (where my results flopped, and I never realised that it was because I got arrogant about how "good" I was) ...so I was trying to humble him... turns out it may be the opposite that he needs.

Again though, good job, Rugby.

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You see? That's my point. Good Job for what?

Anyway, do any of you guys have advice for daygame? That's what I'm going to be focusing on during winter break.

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MY PUA Journey (2015): the-342-journal-vol-2-rugby7-vt187356.html
My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124

Good job for committing yourself to this so much, and improving so fast.

Daygame... hmm... you've probably heard of all of these but YouTube: Goodlookingloser, SimplePickup, Jason Capital (not for day game, just for being the shit in general - picture a mixture of RSD Julien and Adam Lyons), I'd say you'll learn everything from there that you'll need to differentiate really... apart from obviously infield experience. I'm not really qualified to give advice anymore, with my 3 month slump (busy with studying, lazy with fuck buddy, and full of bs excuses)

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Speak with the girl in the same manner you would speak with a girlfriend. You are not trying to 'get' something from the girl, you are sharing your good vibes and seeing if she is cool enough to hang with you more. Having an optimistic, playful outlook when you speak with a woman and overall in general can go a long way.

Rather than the gamey "you. stop. come here. i think you're cute", play it a more elegant, opening with something going on in the immediate area. Your eye contact, your tonality and your non-creepy kino subcommunicates your intent, rather than the male/logical verbal expression of intent.

After a little banter about whatever is going on in the area, exchange some information about eachother, where you go to school, whatever like that.

Then, because you are a busy man, you have to run but you'd like to continue it some time so you get her # for that reason.

I don't want to take over the thread, but how long have you been studying this stuff? You really know your shit. That's spot on.

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Thanks man unfortunately i studied this stuff for way too long when i was an afc pussy. It was only after I started taking action a few years ago that things made sense. Also I was able to immediately drop at least 80% of all the theory i had read. In other words i should have started taking action sooner. Oh well.

As long as we are giving each other props, i saw your post about ur weekly success on tinder, congratulations man

Looking fwd to seeing how it went for Rugby

Sorry for going awol on you guys for a bit. I had finals and other shit.

So, recent developments in my life, I started working out a shit ton again. According to my friends I've gained muscle and lost fat. I cut down my running time by running and singing cadences. Yesterday I was at a friends birthday party. I only knew him and one other guy. Yet I was a leader of men. I could story tell and lead. We went to go to lazer tag at night and it was holarious. I made the guy who had a birthday approach a chick. All he could say was that he was the highest scorer during lazer tag, lol. Talk about AFC, I used to be there.

Oh, I N-closed a chick on the bus. Probably built to much rapport and wasn't seductive enough. Oh well. <-- This is the kind of mistake that is below me Daniels, being a pussy.

So anyway, back to the party, the other guys left and it was just me, the birthday guy, and the other guy that we knew. We were about to go to a club until I got an angry call from my dad that it was too late and I needed to come back.

The Canadian chick is coming back in 2 days. Lets see if I can get some. I kinda forgot to text her so hopefully it won't be awk as fuck.

I have a feeling that this is going to be a good break. Could be because of the start, could be because I'm high off of all of the workout shit I'm taking. I don't care, I'm freaking huge (Like not in the fat way, whatever...)!

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Previously Rugby7

My PUA Journey (2014): http://bit.ly/1yYjtSV
MY PUA Journey (2015): the-342-journal-vol-2-rugby7-vt187356.html
My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124

Fuck me. That girl from Canada was here. She was clearly into me. Too bad I had my sister and mom to, well I don't want to call it cockblocking because they are just plain abnoxious. You should have seen how they were with my ex. Anyway, She followed me on a walk. I don't know why I couldn't take that as a sign to fucking man up. She was about to leave, there was an akward silence, and we kept on breaking it.

You guys always say the worse situation than being rejected is to not make the move. What does that make me?

Side note:
I've been working out like crazy. I'm fucking ripped now. Why don't I have the balls to go for it?

End of Side Note

Anyway, She wants to go Iceskating. I guess I'll kiss her on the third date and try not to be a pussy this time. I'm just fucked up. Can't make the move when she follows me on a walk that she doesn't want to go on. Whatever, hindsight is 20/20. I need to daygame better too, like not chicken out and shit.

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Previously Rugby7

My PUA Journey (2014): http://bit.ly/1yYjtSV
MY PUA Journey (2015): the-342-journal-vol-2-rugby7-vt187356.html
My Workout (Read this): http://bit.ly/1zIQncY

Record: 131
Record: 124