Day 30 Observations

Day fucking thirty!! Holy shit that's outstanding! You've officially made outstanding progress with tracking your own results and coming to grips with where you're at at any given moment.

I'm still freaking proud of you!

Now let's address the issue of "pussying out:"
You want to know what really, really helps with this? If you'd like to know, it's just this: go to your nearest popular bar, find the a spot right where the bartender passes out drinks to people, and sit down from about 9 PM (or earlier) until it closes. Pick out a drink of your choice (non-alcoholic for us Americans) and get comfortable, becuase you're going to be there for a while.

Now, here's the catch: You CANNOT TALK TO ANYONE. You're not allowed

The thing is, though, you'll find that it's impossible NOT to talk to someone in this environment. Someone else will strike a conversation with you.

(Credit: David DeAngelo)

I believe that it was this challenge more than anything else that helped me with my game It's good to remember, too, that I'm nineteen and did this with several bars, which means that you can do this, too!

Your Bro,

Aaron

IIIII IIIII IIIII IIII

GET YOUR ASS BACK ON HERE haha

Day 31
Alright so today and yesterday nothing happened. I haven't gone out since Saturday. I don't know where to go anymore. Since I moved, malls are no longer on my way home anymore. I would have to be on the road for like an extra 30 minutes just to go to them, but I guess I'll just do it tomorrow anyway. I need to find a place (somewhat) close to my house that I can frequent.

Until tomorrow

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My Journal (from AFC to MPUA, still a work in progress)

Day 31 Observations
I had the exact same problem when I lived in Bloomingdale, Michigan. There wasn't ANYTHING to do in terms of improving your social ability.

Moving close to a popular city was the best move I have ever made, because the difference is night and day when it comes to my social life. An example of the night and day difference is that by moving closer, you get the chance to see more socially active locations open up for you (coffee shops, college campuses, bars, clubs, strip clubs)--it's awesome.

But until you move, even a single approach a day can still make significant steps for you in terms of improving your confidence. I'm afraid there's not much else to do BUT a single approach today.

If I were you, the biggest life change you could ever make is to find a way into the city, because you'd experience a level of abundance with women like you've just never experienced yet (note: visiting is different from living there).

At the very least, though, start sharing with me some things that you've learned from Models or Rules of the Game which you BS-ed me about not receiving It's make this a hell of a lot more productive than saying "I didn't complete today's task" haha

Still love you, man. Keep finding a way to improve. Just keep finding a way--you can do it! I used to live in a rural area, too, but it's still possible to improve significantly.

Let me know if this helps

Your Bro,

Aaron

DB's: IIIII IIIII IIIII

Yeah, I'm going to try to go to the city soon, that's a good point. Then I could legitimately spend a few hours honing my game.

Day 32
Today I went out of my way to go to the mall. I'm feeling seriously a lot more confident when I walk around now, but I still didn't talk to any girls. I saw only one that I had an opportunity to go for, and jesus she was so hot that I could my feel my heart beating so fast and hard when I saw her and I just couldn't. At least I got out there and tried though!


By the way, I received Rules of the Game just a week ago, sorry that I forgot to tell you!

Until tomorrow

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My Journal (from AFC to MPUA, still a work in progress)

Day 32 Observations
Know exactly how you feel. I don't know if you've ever heard from me about the story with the hottest girl in my grade at the library, but it was like a rocket's flame engulfed my entire body when I went to talk with her.

It's intense (at first), man
Yeah you did You're not the only one who's BS-ed other people, by the way.

Note: I don't know if you agree with me on this, but I think it's awesome when people challenge themselves to be as honest with me as possible. When people follow the law of "Observing changes the observed," they always grow more than the average person by simply admitting random things that most people cover up.

I mean, sometimes it's good to save face, but in it's almost always better admit what's really going on, I feel

Accepting is the only way to improve, alright? I know I can definitely do this more.

This was just something on my mind, but I look forward to conversing with you tomorrow, Pos!

Your Bro,

Aaron

IIIII IIIII IIIII IIII

Yeah, there's no point in lying to people over the internet, lol.

Day 33
Today I went to the mall again and still didn't approach!! Lol it's been almost two weeks since my last one, I don't know what's happening...this weekend I'm going daygaming with a friend though so I'll get some approaches in!

Until tomorrow

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My Journal (from AFC to MPUA, still a work in progress)

Day 33 Observations
OK, here's something we can do--In order to get this shit handled, let's do this: post your chart DAILY on your journal every day for the next ten days.

If you just do that, magic will happen. The desire to be seen as a PUA god will motivate you to go out and approach more women.

Unconditionally here for you, but I really, really want you to do this now

Look forward to the chart!

Your Bro,

Aaron

Pooooost! Hahaha

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Pos!

Haha sorry about that! Sometimes if I don't have anything to say then I won't post.

Day 34
So nothing happened today. I hit up a friend to go daygame but he said we're going tomorrow. Tomorrow is going to be the first day that I actually invest in game, like doing it for hopefully several hours (at least one), so I can get in a few solid approaches! Looking forward to tomorrow.

Here's my chart so far:


Until tomorrow

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My Journal (from AFC to MPUA, still a work in progress)

Day 35
So today I went out with a friend I met on this forum and two of his friends. I'll let my chart speak for itself:



So yeah haha he made me approach a bunch of girls and I got a lot of good experience. I got rejected by every single girl which is good to make me more immune to rejection and it makes me wonder if I'm doing something wrong like not smiling enough or sounding awkward. All things to be worked on in time.

Until tomorrow

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My Journal (from AFC to MPUA, still a work in progress)

It's nice to see you're handling rejection well man, it should never bother anyone and I noticed that it only seems to hurt if a lot of effort was put into it. When I did a bootcamp a PUA told to go and approach a girl badly and get blown off on purpose, I was like 'What? You mean like, get rejected on purpose!? o.o' I suppose in the back of my mind I thought 'Yeah, I can do this! XD' Holy shit, I went right behind her while she was dancing (Should always approach from the side) tapped her shoulder, she turned around and I made a high five gesture, she politely turned back around and began dancing again. That didn't hurt at all! That experience made me realise, if you get blown off, so what, move onto the next girl and try again with her

Looking at your charts however I don't think you're going out enough times a week man, I do understand work might be that problem but the more you go out in the space of a week, the more and more experience you'll gain and the fast you'll get better. It's also easier to make it a habit and will be much harder to give up on when you're so used to it but I suppose once a week could work too...Im doing about 5 times a week

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"