I have sarged with jackal for a few months. After every sarging session, I feel like I have spent my precious time with a violent hobo who is sucking on your social value and using it for his benefit. He has no charm, no style and has no seductive qualities. He violently opens sets that causes a 100% chance of rejection.

Don, you know that girl I number closed who you said I would be very lucky to get a date 2 with. I just fclosed her, and it was fucking amazing, so not only have I proved you wrong, but that post you posted early about how "lets do a lay report" you have also been beat on that as well.

TAKE A SEAT

This is not the right thread for what I'm about to say so here's the link to divert you guys to the right thread

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This is regarding our Crew's dinner gathering.
You snooze you lose

Word
Jimbeam

DON, second lay report in 3 days, you better start sucking. It was the hb 8.5 that I actually failed to number close in the bullring in daygame, but she contacted me as I gave her my details (which I thought was never gonna happen). Third date in, and it was fucking messy as it gets, was amazing.

So DON, money where your mouth is, where's your lay report

First instant date of my life

I went out with Jackal yesterday to do some daygame. A couple of sets in, I approached an Asian girl who was wandering around looking at shops. I said "Hi, I came here to talk to you because I thought you looked cute" She looked weirded out and started inching away. However, I kept talking and said that she didn't look like she was from around here. She was from Vietnam. We talked about which place was better. Then, we talked about some other random things. I was just focused on not ejecting because I'm trying to increase the length of my interactions. About 3 minutes into our conversation, she said "Do you want to get a drink with me over there?" and she pointed to a nearby bar. I said sure (in my head, I'm like 'wtf is going on?!'). We walked to the bar, which took about 20 seconds. We got in and ordered our drinks, I got a water. Then, we sat down and talked for about 10 minutes about random stuff. I asked her what music she likes. After the 10 minutes, I said I had to leave, but I wanted to take down her number. She said ok and gave it to me. I said 'are you going to give me a kiss goodbye?' (I wanted to see how far I could take this). She looked at me for about 5 seconds and then said 'how about this?' and extended her hand. I said 'that's cool too' and shook her hand. Then, I left the bar.

HOW TO DEVELOP INNER GAME - DO NOT LET RACISM OR BULLYING AFFECT YOU

I have experienced racism for many many years not only in UK but also in Singapore where I lived for 4 years. I can understand that if you are subjected to racism, how deeply it affects your psychology that you have to ask deeper questions. It led me to develop myself and to understand myself better and now I am immune to any racism nor can I be racist to another human being.

I always have sensed VOLCANO was not only racist towards me but also angry and jealous when I had started to sarge really well. He could not control his jealousy and anger. I wondered what led him to gang up with others and start bullying against me. Then I met him while walking around on New Street. For the first time, I noticed that he had ginger hair. Maybe I had noticed it before but I didnt know what ginger hair meant. For me, ginger is just another shade of blonde hair.

Then I checked in the urban dictionary and this is what I found about Ginger kids.
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Ginger Kid

Children who are pointed at frequently for there Redish orangish hair, They are seen as a lower form of life, below transexuals and chavs.

Ginger kids will be abused there entire life to eventual suicide.

And will have black and white pictures on there myspace to hide there ginger secret.

Many a ginger will die there hair black to hide there true hair colour ( Point and giggle to yourself.
"Mum whys that boys Head glowing"
"Son dont point he cant help his disability hes just a ginger kid"

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I can only guess that there is a lot of discrimination going on against ginger people in UK. Gingers are apparently angry, fierce and quarrelsome. Besides, I also learnt that "Gingers have no soul".

This is just too much. VOLCANO, I forgive you for all the things you have said to me. Even on Saturday you told me "Everybody hates you". I could feel the pain in your sould deep inside when you said that. I have never been hated by "everybody". I have been hated by a few and loved by a few and the only one who hated me in the group was you. I am a deeply compassionate and kind person and am able to put up with a lot of abuse and insults(even racism).

So on this note, I can only say may your soul be in peace disregarding the fact that "gingers have no soul". I believe you have a soul. I hope you will learn to behave better in the future. This is just a constructive criticism. I pity any other person who comes across the same kind of behaviour that you have shown towards me.

I am with VOLCANO, I hate you as well Don

Friday Night, sarging nite..

I was late coz of work that night. But still was pretty much sure this time. While walking towards the Slug, I managed to close 5 sets on the way, though they were not as cool as I thought they would be, but the important thing is that I did & did not hesitate.

Met Jackal in Slug, while getting the drinks did 3 more sets & these were pretty ok. While bouncing to different bar, I was discussing on how I would fix some of shortcomings. To which Jackal pointed out the instance he had seen earlier with me trying to open a set. He said I automatically put myself in the IOD zone, that is to say even if the girls seemed interested I was making myself feel disinterested, now this is one thing I had been struggling since long. Got to work on it.

Also the other things which Jackal mentioned that night was to bring in more clarity to my voice & my openers.
Opened a few more sets before we left off.
This night's experience thought me a few more things to get better. but the real test comes on field. so looking forward to more sarging with Jackal & my mates.

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HSK

I'm so close to reaching that one month benchmark. I'm not stopping at one month, though.

Day 28: Normally, after 10 blowouts in a row, I would stop for the day and say "I did 10 approaches, that's good enough". However, since my new rule is that I must stay in set for at least one minute for it to count, that was not good enough. My goal continues to be 5 quality sets every day. I got blown out 10 times in a row and then I went out to dinner with Diamonds, Jackal, and Jimbean. Afterwards, Jackal, Jimbean, and I went to Wetherspoon's where I got my first set done.

2 set seated
I approached them and said I wanted to talk to them because they looked nice/cute/friendly. If you do this kind of approach at a bar and they don't like you, they usually say things like 'it's girls night out', which they did. I ignored it and plowed, saying anything that came to mind. In this case, it was boring questions. 90 seconds in, they still weren't won over. Then, Jimbean came in to wing me. Jackal also came in 15 seconds after that. The girls really wanted us to leave, so we ejected.

HB Romania
She walked in my direction on the street. It was dark out by now. I had unsuccessfully tried to stop girls all day and didn't think this one would work, but it did. We talked about Romania. She mentioned that she was only here for 2 more days. After about 2 minutes of normal conversation (I thought it was going well), she said she had to go and she walked away.

I walked back to my flat with Jimbean and there was a bunch of people outside of it partying. This was a Godsend because I had only done 2 sets and I thought that was it for the day. This gave a chance to complete my 5. I said to Jimbean that we should pull girls to the flat. He said 'how do you that?' I said 'it's easy, like this' and I did my next set.

Girl standing near my dorm
I said 'Hey, I'm here to pull you'. Now, as you can imagine, the set did not go so well. However, I stayed in for 2 minutes and near the end of the conversation, she said she had a boyfriend. She got her phone out, called someone, walked away, and said good night.

2 set in the party group
Now, I approached the party group. There was only one all-girl set. I went up to the 2 set and asked what they were celebrating. They said they were having a birthday party and they pointed to the birthday girl. I continued and introduced myself. I asked some random questions. They were not into the conversation at all. They walked to another section of the party after one minute.

2 set asian
I approached a 2 set that were away from the party. They were only outside in order to smoke. This had to be one of the most awkward conversations ever. I stayed in with them between 5 and 10 minutes. I really love this challenge because I really wanted to leave at many points during the conversation. By the end of the conversation, I was saying things like 'You guys are shorter than me' and other stupid observations because I could think of nothing else to say. They were done with their cigarette, so they left and went back inside the dorm.

This really showed me that tension and awkwardness is really not a big deal. I always avoided talking to girls because I thought it would be awkward, but now I realise there is nothing to fear. On Sunday, I had an instant date with a vietnamese girl (which I documented here). I'm meeting up with her today for a Day 2. I'm a little nervous.

One last thing, when we were near Paradise Forum, Jimbean approached a girl and within 15 minutes, they had their arms around each other and it was going so well. I was so excited, but that excitement led me to ask guys who were walking by 'How long do you think that couple have known each other?' Unfortunately, the girl heard this and I ruined the interaction. My behavior was childish and I apologise for doing that.

Thanks Jackal, for pushing me into that Romanian girl set and pushing me to set up the Day 2 with the vietnamese girl. The polish girl responded today and said she wants to meet up with me next week. You have helped me so much.

CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM FOR CASANOVA AND VOLCANO

Casanova and Volcano : I know you both hate me by now. But don't hate the player. Hate the game. Meet me someday. I will show you what game is.

Let me give you a pro-tip. When someone asks you to prove yourself, an alpha male never tries to prove himself. When I asked for a lay report, you both posted fake lay reports trying to qualify yourself. Never qualify yourself bro. Remember this rule. You qualify others. Others don't qualify you. Whenever you sense that someone is trying to qualify you, it is him betaising you. Never react to an attempt from anyone who is trying to qualify you.


"You can trust a thief, but don't trust a short man".
- ancient proverb

Date with vietnamese girl (Day 29): I met her at victoria square by the big screen, she was waiting for me there. The date went great. We sat down and talked for 30 to 60 minutes. We talked about the tv show Big Bang Theory, family life, vietnam, america, adjusting to a new country, and many other things. It was never awkward. There were no awkward silences. I'm surprised. At the end, I said I would see her another day and then I hugged her goodbye.

After the date, I decided to do a set and then go home:
2 set leaning against a wall on the street
Before I approached, I put the stopwatch on my iPod on. I approached and said "Hey, I was in the neighborhood and I decided to stop by and say hello" (the most random line I could think of) They looked so fucking weirded out. I held the frame. I asked them questions. I focused on not leaving. And it slowly started to turn around. They were warming up to me. Asking me questions. Eventually, the conversation started to get more personal. Even when I couldn't think of what to say, I stood there until something came. By the end of the conversation, they were saying that I was nice. They said I was really friendly. Their demeanor was entirely different compared to the beginning of the interaction. I finally plowed successfully. They had to go get ice cream and I had to go back to my flat and study, so they left. I got my iPod out and looked at the stopwatch. I had been in set for 25 minutes. I couldn't believe it.

Or you can just pretend you have game and when someone calls you out on it you can just beat round the bush and be a pussy. I actually don't think you can write a lay report this year tbh, and I am not faking the lay reports mate, you just can't face defeat.

An alpha doesn't need to prove himself blah blah blah, you are so deluded, when was the last time you got laid don. No 400 word paragraph, when did you last get laid, seriously?

CASANOVA : Again, let me demonstrate. You asked me "When was the last time you got laid?". I don't answer. I don't qualify myself. That's how you do it. Got it ?

I am guessing it has been a few years don to say the least, if my life looked anything like yours I would have already committed suicide mate, you are so pathetic and weak it makes me feel sick, but you keep telling yourself your the best pua in the world, that is cool with me.
Brazzers has a lot to thank you for don because you must be paying for all there bills

CASANOVA
Let me demonstrate neg amplification.
When someone tries to neg you, you agree with them and amplify the neg.
So here is my answer to that.

"Spot on bro. You got it totally right. Yes I am weak. To be honest, I haven't had an erection for the last 2 years. And I watch brazzers free videos cos I am totally broke to pay the bills. "